I know how it feels bro, I lost my grandfather last year only a week before I was due to fly out to Canada to see him.
My only advice that I can give to you is to talk about it with someone if you feel up to it, because it can be really hard to deal with if you just bottle it up inside.
Best of luck with everything.
Nov-12-2006 21:14
Silky Johnson
International Playa Hater
Registered: Nov 2003
Location:
quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
my grandfather died about a month ago. i don't know if i'm the only one that has this outlook on death, but honestly it wasn't something i was necessarily sad about. do i wish my grandfather died? of course not. i have fond memories and enjoyed time with him, but at the same time you have to realize and accept that we aren't immortal. my grandfather had a nice long life and the life that he was living with cancer was not one he'd choose. because of that i'm glad that he passed on and stopped suffering through a terrible existance.
i'm sorry to hear about your loss, but try to realize that it's just a natural part of life...there's nothing we can do to prevent death and most of the time it's a relief of pain...so what's wrong with that?
I totally agree with you, man. I was gonna say something similar, but didn't know just how to say it.
Nov-12-2006 21:19
jdat
Jay Van Dat
Registered: Oct 2001
Location: I dont even know
quote:
Originally posted by Allied Nations
The worst thing about all of this, is I have no one close to me within a thousand miles.
Thanks again everyone.
sorry about the whole situation.
Growing up I had both of my grandparents on my fathers side and my grandfather on my mothers side pass away in the last 10 years.
It was very difficult for me to conceptualize this idea of separation from your loved ones as I hadn't seen them all that much in my life because of the distance living abroad etc.
I hope you'll make it through this and come out a stronger person.
Nov-12-2006 21:52
Yan
fauxhawk
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Wano
That sucks. Feel better, dude.
Life goes on.
Nov-12-2006 22:01
Sushipunk
Flickering, I roam
Registered: Sep 2006
Location: Chateau Verdafloor
I'm really sorry to hear that man
Best wishes to yourself and your family.
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Nov-12-2006 22:08
jonSun
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Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Chicago CTA #77
Very sorry for your loss Greg.
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Nov-12-2006 23:45
reketor
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Jesus wept.
Nov-12-2006 23:46
Rinster
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Registered: Jan 2006
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im sorry to hear that man i wouldnt know myself how to cope with it if i lose somebody close to me.
