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Originally posted by metalgearsolid LMAO. That was the biggest bullshit ever. You became infatuated with her. That sounds like it to me. How long have you been married for?

1.5 years.... dated for 4 prior to that.

While I can understand how that would sound like bullshit I assure you, in my experience it most certainly was not. Nor was it infatuation, I knew within two months of meeting her that she was the one I wanted to spend my life with.... it wasn't a lustfull infatuation, more like a peaceful realization.

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Originally posted by RickyM you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down

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Originally posted by Slylee comfortable silences

I love these.

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard 1.5 years.... dated for 4 prior to that. While I can understand how that would sound like bullshit I assure you, in my experience it most certainly was not. Nor was it infatuation, I knew within two months of meeting her that she was the one I wanted to spend my life with.... it wasn't a lustfull infatuation, more like a peaceful realization.

I'm an inquisitive fellow. So it was a bad thing to answer me because now I'm going to ask more questions.

From your experience it seems like most of previous relations were silly flings. I don't understand how you could have dated for just two months and you knew. I have a lust for every girl I ever dated. If I didn't feel that way i wouldn't have approached them and asked them out. And most of the time I had a peaceful time with them. We would go out and just look at the stars and stay silent for hours enjoying the view.

Perhaps, what happened is that you never really experienced a real gf before your wife. So what really happened was that you are mistaken. She might be the one for you, but you wouldn't have known that if you didn't date the same type of women.

Of course, now I'm just talking out of my ass. I don't even know you.

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Originally posted by metalgearsolid I'm an inquisitive fellow. So it was a bad thing to answer me because now I'm going to ask more questions. From your experience it seems like most of previous relations were silly flings. I don't understand how you could have dated for just two months and you knew. I have a lust for every girl I ever dated. If I didn't feel that way i wouldn't have approached them and asked them out. And most of the time I had a peaceful time with them. We would go out and just look at the stars and stay silent for hours enjoying the view. Perhaps, what happened is that you never really experienced a real gf before your wife. So what really happened was that you are mistaken. She might be the one for you, but you wouldn't have known that if you didn't date the same type of women. Of course, now I'm just talking out of my ass. I don't even know you.

Interesting.... by way of background, I had dated quite a number of women including one seriously for about 5 years. Physically I still have a lust for my wife, however, that has nothing to do with what I was talking about. The peaceful realization I refer to has nothing to do with what we had done together, it would best be described as the sort of peace of mind that comes from being totally comfortable, secure, and at ease. I simply felt that she was it.

It's hard to explain if you have not experienced it.

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Originally posted by RickyM you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down

i am not looking for the one. only a really good friend

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