I've been the other girl in group sex situations, and it didn't work out for the relationships either time. Being the other girl, I was VERY respectful to the situation, didn't overstep my boundaries, and let her/them have all the control....and yet it STILL didn't work out for them.

Be careful. You may think you know what you're doing until it's all over.

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Originally posted by SuspicionVandit Dr. Drew says your relationship is going to fall apart

LOL Sad but indefinitely true my friend....

just give me a call, and ill pick her up for you.

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So okay mmh i had a threesome when i was 19 years old ....my boyfriend of this time kept asking every week for one ....and then we had so much probs in our relationship , that he told me if i didnt accept he would just break up.

I was young , naive and didnt want to lose him (i should have at this time)...so i accepted , i asked my best friend of this time since i knew she was attracted by these kind of things.

So yeah i had to force myself to do it and had to get drunk first because i wasnt feeling able to do such a thing....it was kind of black holes for me and i know i so hated it

after that i thought that my bf would feel fine and things would get better....i was wrong i caught him and my friend having sex ....a few weeks after this

it was the worse experience ever and really did some big damages on my view on relationship and PEOPLE , no trust involved and insecurity .....now finally things are starting to be fine again , but i gotta thank my current boyfriend for helping me to trust people again

if i could back in the past i would definately reject this idea because to force someone or simply keep asking for something , your partner or gf is against is simply not right

i guess it was a good lesson for me , i learnt things from it but i would have definately avoided to learn under such conditions.

i can understand for guys its a big fantasy and all , but if ur relationship is healthy and going well , unless u really wanna try this out , do it in your own or something but dont force by any way to involve your gf if she doesnt want ....im fearing in your case she accepted just to be nice .....

what is sure is that it's a big mistake and people should never do an act they have high chances to regret

so i think u should reconsider this idea of threesome

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The relationships that fall apart usually seem like the guy
( or maybe the girl ) are asking for a 3some because the relationship is falling apart anyway so the 3some is supposed to bring some spice to the sex life in order to maybe pump up the relationship but then things go wrong. The man or woman end up falling for the 3rd party and use that as an excuse to end the relationship completely.

Yeah, I think these kind of things either happen or they don't. Ideally you want it to be "spur of the moment". Seems like if you have to really push for it to happen, it's a good sign that you just shouldn't bother.

just be prepared for the breakup afterwards and everything should be all good. hope it's worth it lol


3somes should only happen with people you could give 2 shits about emotionally.

my 2 cents

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

stranger or friend? what difference does it make? you really don't care about your girlfriend and your in a doomed relationship anyway.

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can i get a shot at your girlfriend? she's my kind of insecure chick and i'm hung like a black guy.

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Originally posted by Spacey Orange can i get a shot at your girlfriend? she's my kind of insecure chick and i'm hung like a black guy.

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Originally posted by lücid i mean the guy is already winning either way, he gets to hook up with his gf and another chick at the same time.

so you're saying you're doing your boyfriend a favor?

HAHAHAHA Newsflash: 80% of young women aged 18-30 fantasize about a sexual experience with another girl.

Actually, the percentage of cases where males bring up this subject is a minority. It's most often brought up by the girl herself. Believe me I have the evidence and if necessary will produce it immediately

What I really hate is this hypocritical tendency on the part of some women to make it into a "battle of the sexes" and deny their own sexuality.

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Hmmm random whore on line, random whore at a club..what an ultimatum

Oh yea, any girl that has sex with someone other than her BF is a "whore".

Wait, is this TA? the place where people talk about buttseks and all that? i guess this proves my point, the more people talk about sex the less they actually have it... It takes one quick quote to reveal a surprisingly prudish and sheltered group of people, despite the constant "sex threads"...