its called being a traitor or a spy. There are people who work places and talk to people and every day they are faking and then they turn around to betray the people the next day they shake hands with again and do it over and over.

I do not have the ability to be doing that to good people. People who trust you...thats a horrible horrible thing to tarnish as love and trust are some of the purer human instincts.

Men might bounce back but after 40 years old youre just cutting a woman who had identified herself as part of you for X years completely adrift and they are older, feeling worthless, hurt...

People doing the wrong thing for that long need a solid solid talking to. solid as in literally using something solid to talk to them.

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Enferno, tough situation man, i feel for you having been through similar 10 years ago, there is no set time for 'moving on' it just happens, one day you wake up and its happened.
Having a Child complicates things no end, more so if you get to the divorce stage because of course you still have to see each other in regards to the child but whatever happens, always let the kid know that you love her and will do whatever you can for her no matter how the situation ends up.

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Originally posted by Wicked Neo Retarded posts removed (as well as posts quoting those retards) Enferno, tough situation man, i feel for you having been through similar 10 years ago, there is no set time for 'moving on' it just happens, one day you wake up and its happened. Having a Child complicates things no end, more so if you get to the divorce stage because of course you still have to see each other in regards to the child but whatever happens, always let the kid know that you love her and will do whatever you can for her no matter how the situation ends up.

ok now you delete threats you deem retarded because they don't fit in with your world view. that's really lame.

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yeah apparently me saying divorcing older women is doubly underhanded because they have rougher lives was out of line.

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Originally posted by Orbax yeah apparently me saying divorcing older women is doubly underhanded because they have rougher lives was out of line.

Your post wasn't deleted.

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Originally posted by RJT Your post wasn't deleted.

oh...then me saying the guy needed a beating for deceiving her for 10 years was.

theres gonna be rage in this thread from time to time! emotional subject!


edit holy crap im retarded. never mind doin a find job Neo carry on..


i thought i had put it into 2 posts and its all there...

*sips tea*

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Originally posted by Orbax oh...then me saying the guy needed a beating for deceiving her for 10 years was. theres gonna be rage in this thread from time to time! emotional subject!

Fair play to you then, Walker.

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I can only speak about this from a point of view with no children. So my advice would most likely be negated. I can only say that I'm sorry you're going through this and hope that things get better over time no matter how things work out.

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enferno: my deepest regards go out to you. most everyhing i would say has been said. the counseling, working it out etc. the ONE thing i have NOT seen said is, do NOT stay together because of your daughter. thats not saying you should or shouldnt dissolve the marriage. if that is whats best for everyone (yes that means it cant be good for just one of the 3) then so be it. just dont make the mistake of staying together for your child. its a stupid reason and just causes more problems in the future. i have seen it time and time again and it just ends up worse than if they divorced.

again my best regards in this horrible situation go out to you.

dude i have a few things i stand for.

one i would never rat on someone. I once took a 1 month suspension from school for being falsely accused but i would not point a finger at who done what.

#2 I would never ever ever disrespect myself by letting some chick fuck some other dude then me forgive her. I know god is all forgiving but i aint god, Im Eric. I have my flaws and pride is one of them. How do you move on? you take it day by day. you keep your mind and your body busy, and you improve yourself in every way you can think of. and when your ready you get back out there on the market and you fuck new chicks and meet new people and you get on with your life. Healing is a time for you to get stronger then you once were.