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| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
I do agree that it doesn't even have to be about sex though. However, "personal values, self-worth, and/or integrity" are all things that each individual should question at times. A person who clings to these things with adamant is not a whore, but is just as detestable; a prude. |
questioning your personal values can often end up in fail.
like if you question your integrity in order to make someone else happy...well in the end youre not gonna be happy yourself, and then you'll probably end up taking it out on them making two people unhappy.
you cant have a happy relationship with a partner if you arent happy yourself.
also theres no reason to say that someone with self-worth or intergrity is a "prude"...you dont know how extreme their integrity is. I wouldnt call someone a prude just cuz they want to fall in love before having sex, thats just the way they roll maybe. You also have to remember that everybody doesnt even have the same sexual desire to begin with.
On the otherhand people who want to wait until marriage for sex are strange to me...cuz marriage doesnt really mean much does it? Well I guess it must to some people, but i dont understand why (unless they are religious in which case RUN AWAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY)
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