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Nsonic
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Jul 2004
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| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
Once she realized that she wasn't ready for a relationship, she probably figured that all that time spent with you, making out and the bit, was probably being perceived as something more than what she wanted.
At this point, she probably felt guilty as she most likely felt that she was leading you on. Her "mistake" was making you think that she was interested in more than she really was. |
Ohhhhh
that makes more sense
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Nov-05-2007 07:01
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drivingforce
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Jul 2006
Location: Rutgers..(new slumswick)
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Thats extremely odd of her, but one thing that doesnt surprise me about women is their ability to just say or do the most random shit ever, and come straight out of left field.
Im still trying to understand 2 months of serious dating and getting no real physical relationship the entire time. As stated before is she a virgin or religious. Also as stated normally after I see a girl for a week solid it should of at least happened once even playing the game just the tip would count haha. So maybe she was looking for more control on your aspect, but then her saying what she said is pretty contradictory since she made the moves. Sounds possibly like maybe she kind became uninterested? That nite of her sleeping over maybe she expected whatever to happen or because it didn't go as planned in her head she decided she made a mistake. Dont worry though, better off since you wont be with some contradictory chick, just sorry you found out two months into it.
the moral of story-go to same bar...and fuck one of her friends.
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Nov-05-2007 07:37
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Fledz
Banned

Registered: Sep 2006
Location: London UK
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Nov-05-2007 09:46
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Ian
Not dead yet.
Registered: Dec 2001
Location: UK
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sounds like the kinda girl who'd want you to sleep with her & then cry rape afterwards.
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Nov-05-2007 10:53
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we_R_DNA
Thermionic Trance Mission
Registered: Jan 2004
Location: Right, Here
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At any rate man her choice was clear. She left with out saying a word. Creeping through the cloak of darkness, in a last ditch effort, she sails away only to murmer that she made a mistake when you talked to her again.
That alone is reason enough to just ask, "What mistake did you make?"
Keep in mind, women love to make men angry in a dialogue; due to the fact it justifies their own agression. So the moment you get angry with her she will take your anger absorb it and turn into a super raging steroid abusing she-devil which you cannot by any humanly means win against.
Senario A:
If she tells you something like, "oh I left to go sleep in some other man's bed." Feel free to tell her, "Thanks for being honest. Now fuck the fuck off, stupid fucking hoe."
Senario B:
If she tells you anything else listen closely to her assertion or claim and what type of data warrents her claim.
If any of this falls short of presuading you of what she was doing, say, "WTF did you just say to me?"
Then you have to counter rhetort.
Do this with out sounding angry.
The moment you show agression or sound angry, you are screwed to ever and I mean EVER get the reason out of her why she made a mistake because at this point she is already be thinking something else which justifies why she did not make the mistake in the first place.
Senario C:
Never call her again. Find another lady/woman in life to be with.
Senario D:
Invite her over to your place and sit down and talk about what went on that night. Feel free to play mr. Psychologist and get into her head, because for some weird reason women like it when you actually care about what they are thinking.
Senario E:
Drink coffee and beer, enjoy life and just know that our attachments as human beings really do get the best of our emotions.
"Experience life and all the things in it as the action of breathing. Take in the joys that give you life and just as easily let them go." ~Buddhist teaching
What I am saying is take her in, embrace her love her to no end when you with her if this is what brings you joy in life. Also be ready to let her go just as easily. I imagine if you did this your post might of never of appeared on the internet.
Peace be with you
I'm off to make some coffee!
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Nov-05-2007 11:48
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bananas
baby i got your money

Registered: Oct 2004
Location: Mordor
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Nov-05-2007 18:33
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