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trancegurl
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Registered: Oct 2001
Location: Texas

It’s not race…it’s your environment..

It’s not race…it’s your environment..

Here’s my situation..
As a child, I grew up with latinos and blacks and was very close to them even though my parents were the typical prejudice parents (I’m asian)..so even though I was taunted as a child in regards to hanging with the “right” people, I was color blind and didn’t give a fuck what my parents said..i was more rebellious as a child..hahah.

Then my parents got richer and we moved to a predominantly white neighborhood where I hung out with white people, mainly throughout highschool..and my parents liked that better even though they had their prejudices against “whities” (that’s what my parents called white people)..

Then I moved away and went to college and that’s when I started to hang out with Asians. I really did not expect to hang out with Asians since a lot of asian girls thought I was a snob. And b/c I was asian, many of the white girls just assumed that I only hung out with Asians..so now, I hang out with mostly asians although on occasion, I will encounter some open minded non-asian people that are willing to hang out with me! I love it when that happens! It’s rare though!

So what’s my point you ask? Well I have hung out with all races and I would date them all and I have…but now, I would only date Asians because I feel obligated to.
I either get disowned by my parents (which would totally destroy me) for dating outside of my race or I do what I want and accept the fact that I will be treated like an outcast in my family…so people ask me “so you only date Asians?” and I tell them “I have to”..but I tell them that I don’t mind the fact that I “have to” date Asians b/c my parent’s happiness means the world to me even though they are ignorant..so I am willing to go by their standards and accept them as my own..

I grew up willing to date all races and I find myself attracted to all races but when it comes down to getting serious, the image of my parents pop in my head and I realize that I have to stick to my own b/c of my environment..hahaa..they’re like the devil I tell yah! So my biggest fear would be falling in love with a non asian guy..HAHAHAH..damn..what a girl to do…

Jun-10-2002 21:31 United States

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apri_peel
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Registered: Jul 2001
Location: vancouver

this is same with my parents. my dad is chinese and my mom is half chinese, they only want me to marry a chinese guy. up until recently they wanted me to date asians only but i went out with a white guy and i guess they sorta realized that they cant dictate me what to do. my brother married a white girl and my parents were devastated. i dont care what they think tho, im dating whomever i want, asian, black, white, latino, whatever. my parents cant tell me whats best for me, only i know whats best for me.
i see your point trancegirl but you also have to realize that your own happiness is at stake. i understand you when you say that you're forced to hang out with asian ppl, im in a similar situation, but when it comes to dating, i think id rather stay single forever than date/marry someone my parents are happy with but im not even attracted to.

Jun-11-2002 01:37 Canada

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u4ea:[soulstar]
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Registered: May 2001
Location:

Asian girls catch my attention more.. Must be the eyes and shapes of their faces. I'm about to tutor this asian girl in English. This is not going to be fun...or it could be. LOL

I don't really have a preference, just whichever girl can catch my attention. As for stereotypes.. my parents are the same. I just don't follow their rules..

Jun-11-2002 05:47

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Orbax
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Registered: Apr 2002
Location:

It's funny that pirates were always going around searching for treasure, and they never realized that the real treasure was the fond memories they were creating.

Jun-11-2002 05:55 United States

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davinox
diving deep into sound

Registered: Dec 2001
Location: you could say i'm from dallas

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
It's funny that pirates were always going around searching for treasure, and they never realized that the real treasure was the fond memories they were creating.

hahahahaaHHAhahahahaaahahahaha...

dude...that made me laff.

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Jun-11-2002 08:38 Tunisia