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Halcyon+On+On
Liebchen

Registered: Sep 2004
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I don't see any of these traits as being particularly any more problematic than even their opposites. So you have met some people (and will again, no doubt) that probably didn't rub right with your personality - man, I think most everyone I meet each and every day fits this bill, myself. But fuck what other people think. One sad truth about the world is that you cannot change the world - only yourself, if anything, and not even everybody is capable of doing that. So change if you don't like these things, and be yourself if you do not feel like changing - it's as simple as that. People, largely, will both love and hate you no matter what decisions (or in-decisions) you make, and the people who stick around because they love you most when you are being yourself are the only ones worth changing yourself for, ironically enough.
I know I said basically nothing, but you could probably stand to care just a little less about what others think - I mean, really, these traits you have listed could have been any other personality traits. They only cause disturbance in you when other people are unable to accept them, when other people act irrationally to encountering them - encountering you - due to their own faults in coping with others. I'm not saying everyone is perfect in their own little individuality - quite the opposite. I am saying that it seems as though you are seeking to change only out of the benefit of pleasing people who dislike things about you - and that if this is so, you are doing it utterly wrong.
If you are bothered by your inability to pick 'a side' on issues though, perhaps that is because you have the resolve to understand that truth is almost entirely subjective, and that life is short and insignificant and, ultimately, nobody really cares what you think.
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There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
Than are dreamt of in your philosophy.
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Apr-07-2009 13:32
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Silky Johnson
International Playa Hater

Registered: Nov 2003
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| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
I don't see any of these traits as being particularly any more problematic than even their opposites. So you have met some people (and will again, no doubt) that probably didn't rub right with your personality - man, I think most everyone I meet each and every day fits this bill, myself. But fuck what other people think. One sad truth about the world is that you cannot change the world - only yourself, if anything, and not even everybody is capable of doing that. So change if you don't like these things, and be yourself if you do not feel like changing - it's as simple as that. People, largely, will both love and hate you no matter what decisions (or in-decisions) you make, and the people who stick around because they love you most when you are being yourself are the only ones worth changing yourself for, ironically enough.
I know I said basically nothing, but you could probably stand to care just a little less about what others think - I mean, really, these traits you have listed could have been any other personality traits. They only cause disturbance in you when other people are unable to accept them, when other people act irrationally to encountering them - encountering you - due to their own faults in coping with others. I'm not saying everyone is perfect in their own little individuality - quite the opposite. I am saying that it seems as though you are seeking to change only out of the benefit of pleasing people who dislike things about you - and that if this is so, you are doing it utterly wrong.
If you are bothered by your inability to pick 'a side' on issues though, perhaps that is because you have the resolve to understand that truth is almost entirely subjective, and that life is short and insignificant and, ultimately, nobody really cares what you think. |
Your faith in the strength of your own opinions also disgusts me.
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Apr-07-2009 13:37
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