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| quote: | Originally posted by Domesticated
There's nothing wrong with recommending Bob Sinclar. Like me, while you may see that as shit, I know plenty of women (and guys, actually) who enjoy that kind of stuff and still get a kick out of it years after it's been released, in the same way people still enjoy Abba and other music we might see as disposable. You're being condescending by assuming she'll get over it just because you don't like it. |
Well I don't regard Abba as disposable, actually. As far as pop music goes, it's difficult to top Abba. But Bob Sinclar... I don't care how respected this guy used to be in house circles, in the same way that Pendulum's position in drum 'n bass circles around 2004 in no way migitates the shit they put out now. Bob Sinclar is, in my opinion, fucking awful, and it would go against my integrity to recommend someone an act I regard as poisonous.
That's actually beside the point though. Bob Sinclar is played on daytime radio here. He's featured on your average supermarket Ministry of Sound compilation. You don't need to recommend Bob Sinclar. The most clueless person in the world can find Bob Sinclar. A girl asked me what music I liked once, and when I replied "dance music" she played a Bob Sinclar track on her phone. "Stuff like this?"
It's not really about Bob Sinclar being poisonous, although that's why I singled him out in particular, but rather how massively visible he is. Likewise Daft Punk. Everyone knows Daft Punk. You don't need to recommend Daft Punk, because everyone who has any interest in dance music will check out DP in their own time. I actually think it's condescending to think people would be so clueless that they need guiding onto gateway music like Sinclar or DP. If they're asking, they want taking past gateway music.
| quote: | | In regards to having guidance, I hear you there, but I think music is just like life; you have to make your own mistakes and find your own way to a certain degree. I very rarely actually take recommendations from people for music, because I prefer to find it on my own (the joy of discovery!), and half the time my tastes differ from theirs anyway. |
Perhaps you're of a different mindset to this person, since she's asked for recommendations where you wouldn't. Recommendations are just one of the ways of finding out about new music. If I were left to trawl Beatport, Juno and other music sites, aimlessly listening to samples with no direction, I wouldn't own half the great music I do. I'd probably go away dispirited and jaded. I read lots of reviews, follow lots of forum threads, catch up on my history, download hyped sets. They're all ways of finding out about great music from other people and recommendations are no different.
It's almost impossible to avoid having your exploration influenced by the opinion of others, and the great thing is you can quickly find out how closely your opinion correlates with someone else's. I'd be happy to ask you about good prog-psy recommendations, for example, even if I didn't intend to have my explorations into prog-psy dictated entirely by one person's opinion.
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> Maximum Elevation [Progressive House]
> DI.FM 26th Anniversary Guest Mix [Progressive House]
> Live @ Dance:Love:Hub London, 11.10.2025
> Higher Peaks [Progressive House]
> Dance:Love:Hub Afterparty (The Return) 23.11.24
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