|
Human beings by nature aren't bad/evil. Many turn out like that after observing how society teaches 'survival of the fittest' rather than 'being there for one another'.
So the whole competitive behavior kicks in and it grows with them by age. This is a dangerous path to go down, for the soul. You will start to feed your ego, feel superior to those who may not be as good as you, feel threatened by those who are better, will do anything to make yourself look better than others. Some succeed in this and become the elites and like to control the masses. Others fail and develop insecurity and become vulnerable.
You don't really need examples for me to prove this point. Just go outside in downtown or somewhre crowded and with the intention of observing their behavior and actions and the way people talk/carry themselves. You will find out exactly what I'm talking about.
You will see guys who act like females, some who like to show how macho they are, and many other categories, but hardly anything positive. Alot of them dwell on drugs or copy hiphop stars and the way they dress, thinking in their head they are so cool. When they get a chance to put others down, they jump to the opportunity.
As for the females, you will see some that like walking around dressed like whores, others who cover themselves to hide insecurities. Infact, they are both insecure. The 'dressed like whore' likes the attention which gives her assurance she's the hottest thing on this planet. The other one hates the attention, because she thinks everyone is watching her.
The difference you can make is not by changing others, but by changing yourself by becoming a more pure soul. Others will naturally see your actions/behavior and say 'wow, i want to be like him/her'. And you will feel honored, without anything to prove.
|