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| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Yeah, and the same rule still applies. You can either trust that your husband/partner/lover is this type of person, or not. That's just the "risk" that everyone (except Arbiter) takes when they choose to love somebody and remain in a relationship with them. Sometimes you just get fucked, c'est la vie.
I think I'd rather live in ignorance (if I was with a double lifer) than suspicion. However, I'd like to think I'd know that I was with a piece of shit, lol. |
yea i guess. to be honest, i've seen so many fucked up things and lies and shit and heard stories, i guess i'm just one of those people who isn't surprised by much and i'm realistic about things and people, especially in relationships.
i was just sharing a story in the pothead thread the other day about my ex's college crew. they all lived in minnesota and one in north dakota with wives they dated in college and kids at home and they were in miami doing all kinds of drugs n shit. i mean they weren't cheating, but still...their wives had no clue what was going on. they only do that like once or twice a year. wmc and vegas.
and that lawyer chick i just told you about was married to that guy for 10 years and they had a son together who was like 8. then you also got these wives whose husbands leave them after 15 years and admit to being gay the whole time.
lol you just never fucking know with ANYone. not even your own parents.
but yea i'm the same as you in that i give myself credit for being able to spot shit. perfect example is my last serious relationship with that guy i discovered was watching teen porn every fucking day after class while i was at work. lol NO THANKS. he was the total sweet & innocent type, completely swept me off my feet, i thought i had found a total keeper. from ohio, small town boy, drop dead gorgeous, great family and great relationship with them...
oh yea disclaimer: addicted to porn. 
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| quote: | Originally posted by notelfreak
man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone |
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