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i have no problem being assertive or even bossy.. however, when i get upset, i don't consider it being passive, but i just don't feel like talking. it's probably the LAST thing i want to do is voice myself.
if im upset and say 'IM FINE' it means more, 'GTFO & leave me alone'- i prefer leaving the situation and i enjoy being solitary in the moment. more noise just pisses me off.
however, i know now that doing that doesn't help the situation and instead i need to speak up when im upset, its easy to say and hard to do in the moment when you feel frustration. for those of you who say it's easy, then you probably don't have this problem- but it tends to be very difficult to TRY and speak your mind when your mind is firing up & you already feel frustrated..
nathan -- 
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that's it, fuck it i'm quitting ta forever.
fuck if i'm gonna get trolled by fucking yukii. dammit! |
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