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Originally posted by Miss Proximus From this moment on I'm available for a good beating. I tied myself to a wooden cross and handed out some tomatoes and eggs to the audience.

/me throws a big tomato and 2 eggs at Miss P \

this is fun!!!

seriously, why ask it on the internet?? you should ask your friends, they know you the best and they probably know that friend of yours too so they can give you the best advice

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Firstly, if u got advice for Julie Fine, if not keep outta it, she's really helped me lately and does to everyone who needs it

Secondly, I got the same thing Julie (as u know my circumstances) like i dunno what to do, if I keep them in my desk where they are now, do I get accused of not being over her, or just kepeing them safe, I think u should keep em cos its memories, and to burn them would be to say that time in ur life never happened, and thats a big ask to do

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Originally posted by Miss Proximus and i don´t see why anyone would bother about that...see the thing that bothers me....why talk about exes if you havre a current BF that´s also on the site? oh and from what I´ve heard..she´s got about 1000000 people in her MSN list...isn´t that enough people to ask for advise?

But why let it bother you at all? It's nobody's business but Julie's (and maybe her ex & current boyfriend) what she wishes to discuss on the site. Aren't there more important things to worry about?

I could ask you the same thing mister

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Originally posted by Blik you should ask your friends,

Ever thought that's what she was doing?

didn't read the whole thread...whatever

julie, get a shoebox, tape up all the sides, and then cut a whole in the top so you can put the letters in there....so you'll always have the letters, but you won't ever have to look at them

i have a box with all my ex g/fs' crap in it....its pretty neat

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Originally posted by PatMcGroin didn't read the whole thread...whatever

Ditto...

umm spyder, jus throw it away i guess...
you could burn em..not cause of any resentful feeling but just to forget

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Originally posted by Blik seriously, why ask it on the internet?? you should ask your friends, they know you the best and they probably know that friend of yours too so they can give you the best advice

Some people like the anonymity of the internet. Imagine if someone took it the wrong way and thought that she was still in love with her ex; furthermore, what if this person were a gossip queen/king?

Big troubles would arise!

She could always write into a teen mag though

Cheers

1 : burn/trash/poop on them

2 : keep them , frame them, hide them, but don't forget that you'll one day fall back on them

3 : give them back to him
( I did that witht the only real love of my life .... gave her every single letter, piece of paper, note that she had written to me, how I wish today I wouldn't have done that, I'd at least have something left from her )


really it's you who decides, maybe you should just ignore the letters, stop the dreaming, or whatever might be holding you back

Don't worry about it Julie, I have all my old x stuff in my room still , like cinema stubs , letters etc, the memories will aways be in your mind, those letters will affect you in a big way but , relationships are built on more than just a soppy love letter. If he loved love , than he would be with you now. Thats how i see things anyway. The brain and the Heart are two seperate feelings stimulated from each other, you say you loved him , now love is the biggest word in the world its even bigger than money and the word GOD. I could say i love my x , and i have told her that i love her, but is it love or is it a mislaid feeling of emtions playing games , also the fear of being lonely plays a big part on your heart aswell, you can't find love , love will find you and then you decide from that point.

My advice on the letters , gawd i would seriously throw them away like cmon its ink on paper , + if you find a true love and he finds them, then ' QUESTIONS MUST BE ASKED ' lol. Destroy them by ripping them up into little pieces and throw them into the sea , aslong as there with you , the longer your gonna feel this way, its your brain , tricking your heart.

Greetz RzR

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