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| quote: | Originally posted by Conway Twitty
but is there any progress with that relationship? whats the point of its not going forward? you might just as well be fuck friends instead then. i always think that couples should move together as fast as possible to find out whether it works or not, and then break up if it doesnt, time and frustration saved. the longer it delays the more painfull it will be. |
I don't mean to take a shot at you at all, but how old are you?
The OP is only a couple years younger than me (according to his TA profile), and at that age I don't think it would be too much of a stretch to assume he has a stable job/career. If the girl in question is roughly his age, then she most likely has a stable job/career too.
Do you really think that moving in "together as fast as possible to find out whether it works or not, and then break up if it doesn't" is the best idea? Either one, or the other, would likely have to give up their position to move to a different city, and then potentially find a new job. Not a great idea at the best of times, let alone with how the economic climate for jobs is faring, in the US right now.
I don't see the distance between them to be much of an issue at all. Like someone pointed out earlier in the thread, if they see each other 2-3 times a week, they'll likely see each other more than busier people that live closer together.
Basically, Nerologic: Give it a go, you might as well. Hope it works out 
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