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Originally posted by Hybrid Junkie the other thing which slightly annoys me about this is that I trust her, and she knows that, and says that I can trust her (we've been togehter for about 7 months) but the problem is..... when I met her, she was kind of with another guy.......that ended (it didn't really start, but he got a bit annoyed at her). So if I "stole" or whatevered her from another guy.....is it gonna happen to me??????? I still trust her, but it's annoying that I got that nag at the back of my mind when I know she's out.....grrrrr

I know exactly what you mean, man.
What you gotta remember is that the key to any relationship is trust.
When you can take a deep breath and get rid of these obsessive doubts, that's when you know the relationship is healthy.

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Originally posted by Eugene I know exactly what you mean, man. What you gotta remember is that the key to any relationship is trust. When you can take a deep breath and get rid of these obsessive doubts, that's when you know the relationship is healthy.

word...i met my current gf in the twilight of her relationship w/ her ex and it has crossed my mind more than once if the same could happen to me. and u just gotta try stop thinking about stuff like that...it just screws w/ ur mind. have some confidence in urself and in ur girl, if she's anywhere decent, i'm sure she's capable of making decisions on ur own. and if she does leave you and the guy is a lowlife, then so is she. if she leaves you and the guy is decent, well, trust that she knows wut she's doing and wish her well. that's pretty much all u can do! so stop worrying about it and just enjoy ur life and ur girl, and have fun in the fact that there's a lot of ppl our there that would LOVE to be in ur shoes.

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Originally posted by Julie_Spyder OOOoooOOO can you be MY bf..

LOL!
Make sure your not wearing your school girl outfit when he tosses you on his shoulder!
You may catch a draft with that short kilt!

*winks at julie


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Originally posted by DJ CLUSTER LOL! Make sure your not wearing your school girl outfit when he tosses you on his shoulder! You may catch a draft with that short kilt! *winks at julie Cheers, Zigg's www.djcluster.com

ROFLMAO na dont worry i dont think that kilt is gona ride up too much..

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Originally posted by jennypie
Because you're a filthy WHORE!

Well I don't really mind guys coming up and talking to me, but what I absolutely hate is when they feel like they can just go up to a girl and start grinding her, or when they want to get her attention by touching her. *shudder*

But if they were to give me a little smile first and I were to RETURN that smile then it would be okay to chat.

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theres a difference between a confident guy, and a pushy guy.

if a guy smiles at me (some people are saying this is the way to go), im not going to go up to him because of that. odds are, i would think its a mistake, or just not something that proves to me the guy wants to talk to me. so that approach wouldnt get anywhere with me. if a guy is interested, he needs to come talk to me... when it gets too pushy, yes, that sucks. but i dont mind a guy making smalltalk, buying me a drink, whatever.

as far as them hitting on a girl you like when you are there, what, are all people supposed to be mind readers?

just because a girl is hanging out with a guy at a club, does not mean they are dating. i go to clubs with guy friends of mine all the time... but that doesnt mean we are together. im sure there are a lot of guys, and girls, who dont just give up on a person just because they are standing with someone of the opposite sex. if it was me, id try to talk to them anyways. if i found out it was indeed his g/f, id back off.i know ive made assumptions about people "dating", when it turns out it wasnt like that,. and i could have had a chance at something, which i didnt take. i dont have that attitude anymore.

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About clubs... no offense but you're not very smart if you take your significant other to a club. I mean think about it, clubs are such a "meat-market" atmosphere, everyone is there to have a little fun, and the assumption is that everyone's single -- or at least wouldn't mind some grinding with a stranger

no offense to you either, but this sounds terribly paranoid and controlling. i would never date someone who would try to dictate to me where i can go... especially considering some people like going to clubs for the music or to dance. so if i date someone, i have to stop going because the guy is going to be afraid i will leave with someone else? thats not my problem, thats the problem of the jealous b/f (or g/f if it goes the other way). they need to get over their own insecurities and trust their partner, rather than just not taking them to clubs.

totally agree with you sothis, i'm looking forward to meeting you at tiesto, you always have something interesting to say.

i might even buy you a drink, but, i'm engaged so it will just mean i think your cool.

oh yeah, and one more thing, smiling can work fine.

i went to a rave this weekend, and there was this person smiling at me from across the room. so, i walked over and said, "hi, how's it going" the person said "hey", and smiled real big, and looked into my eyes. I said, "i noticed you smiling at me, i had to come over and say hi. then the person said "well, i couldn't help smiling" I said "Why's that?" they said "Cause you are so cute"

then i said, "Sorry pal, i'm not gay, but i don't mind that you are!"

then i proceeded to flirt with him a little just for fun.
i'm such an asshole.

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Originally posted by JohnSmith oh yeah, and one more thing, smiling can work fine. i went to a rave this weekend, and there was this person smiling at me from across the room. so, i walked over and said, "hi, how's it going" the person said "hey", and smiled real big, and looked into my eyes. I said, "i noticed you smiling at me, i had to come over and say hi. then the person said "well, i couldn't help smiling" I said "Why's that?" they said "Cause you are so cute" then i said, "Sorry pal, i'm not gay, but i don't mind that you are!" then i proceeded to flirt with him a little just for fun. i'm such an asshole.

It's disgusting!!!

lol.. that's not disgusting man, it's harmless.

there are two kinds of flirting. one is flirting for fun. everyone does it, don't deny it, even when you see a pretty girl at checkout cashier you suck in your tummy a bit.

the second is flirting with intent. your intent is to get the other person.

as long as you stick to the first one, everything is fine..

damn, you think that was disgusting? you should have seen what i did to the guy in the bathroom! :P

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i might even buy you a drink, but, i'm engaged so it will just mean i think your cool.

im down for a "you're cool" free drink