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i just want to reiterate what Stu, Pie and the others said- very sound advice.
especially about the neighbors part. i had a friend who swore by the rule to never get too close to your neighbors. it's safer and easier that way.
i tend to be more social though, and it has come back to bite me in the ass more than once.
i forget who said it here- "don't shit where you eat." spot-on!
case in point- the last apartment building i lived in, i befriended this hawt chick and it was cool. we'd smoke out and just have fun. then, of course, we banged. it was great. we talked about it and she didn't want to have a relationship- just be fuck friends. awesome right?
no. once she saw another girl and i getting friendly she flipped her wig, and a huge cat fight ensued.
guess who didn't have a chair when the music stopped- me.
they became friends and i was the villain.
followed by them complaining to management about anything and everything, even to the point of making shit up.
COR version- don't have sex with your neighbors
also, get a cat (or a dog if you don't like cats).
animals are family and priceless. (and cleaning up a hairball is much easier than dealing with some bull-shit drama that can come from roommates)
btw- drinking more will not make you happier or your life better, quite the opposite in fact.
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