Yeah, the most pervasive mistake of the gallant white knight. You cannot fix people. You can learn to accept them, and in doing so truly recognize that they are imperfect as anyone else, exempt from your hamfisted "fixing" as any peer ought to be, or you can rally your support behind their own fixations, powerless to help them in any humanistic manner, and powerful to degrade them in the same cycle you suppose them to be entangled by. Is that what you want, Desiderata? To hamstring people?
So much ham. Where is Amber?
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Aug-08-2012 02:36
Desiderata
addiction of duplicities
Registered: Feb 2007
Location: San Antonio,Texas
quote:
Originally posted by Miss Pie
Lol...fixing people. Go take your meds.
Didn't you want to work with mentally ill people? I quote from random thread you said it was a passion. What would be your point in that job. Obviously you didn't get the job. You seem more cruel and probably work with hospice so you can read a book and watch them die as you get paid.
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Aug-08-2012 02:41
Silky Johnson
International Playa Hater
Registered: Nov 2003
Location:
Yeah, definitely go take your meds you fucking spaz.
Aug-08-2012 02:44
Desiderata
addiction of duplicities
Registered: Feb 2007
Location: San Antonio,Texas
I should have used helping instead if the person is worth the investment to a said person. But "fixing" worked with classic cars. Shouldn't have tried to be pun-ish
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Aug-08-2012 02:44
Desiderata
addiction of duplicities
Registered: Feb 2007
Location: San Antonio,Texas
quote:
Originally posted by Miss Pie
Yeah, definitely go take your meds you fucking spaz.
that doesn't work on me jenny. You have to do better.
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Aug-08-2012 02:59
Silky Johnson
International Playa Hater
Registered: Nov 2003
Location:
Buddy, you can't take a little bit of harmless ball busting without getting seriously butthurt (as evidenced by your previous reply) - so don't sit there and try to say it (although I'm not trying to do anything) doesn't work. Jesus fuck, just move on.
Aug-08-2012 03:11
Desiderata
addiction of duplicities
Registered: Feb 2007
Location: San Antonio,Texas
quote:
Originally posted by Miss Pie
Buddy, you can't take a little bit of harmless ball busting without getting seriously butthurt (as evidenced by your previous reply) - so don't sit there and try to say it (although I'm not trying to do anything) doesn't work. Jesus fuck, just move on.
I did...15 minutes ago or so.
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Aug-08-2012 03:15
ivofivo
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Mar 2009
Location: Your mother's kitchen
quote:
Originally posted by Miss Pie
Obviously he is a rapist/molester.
Go listen to trance. You will come back and be ashamed of your vulgar statement. Asshole.
Aug-08-2012 03:39
Looney4Clooney
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Apr 2010
Location:
quote:
Originally posted by Desiderata
Didn't you want to work with mentally ill people? I quote from random thread you said it was a passion. What would be your point in that job. Obviously you didn't get the job. You seem more cruel and probably work with hospice so you can read a book and watch them die as you get paid.
maybe the fact that he/she i'm not sure of person's gender is aware of these issues and how hard they are to fix even for a professional team of psychiatrists/psychologists and in care treatment , the idea of some young untrained heavily biased person thinking they can change things sort of silly. Fucking silly. Like a clown without a red nose. Nope.
Registered: Mar 2009
Location: Your mother's kitchen
quote:
Originally posted by Desiderata
OP- been there, done that, have the t-shirt and now it's faded.
You are not alone.
If you really like her, think of her as a classic car and put some work into fixing her up with your families morals. If you can reach just one person. If she is Sardines, then move on.
I lol at everyone's response to my thread. But yours, my friend, takes the cake.
Aug-08-2012 03:40
Looney4Clooney
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Apr 2010
Location:
quote:
Originally posted by ivofivo
Go listen to trance. You will come back and be ashamed of your vulgar statement. Asshole.
You know what is vulgar. Raping 1 child when you have 3. That sort of favouritism will destroy a kids esteem. Parenting 101.