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Toronto the Cold
Toronto the Cold
I have lived in Toronto all my life. I have traveled to some cities in the United States and once to Bueanos Aires. I find this city to be very cold, especially when it comes to meeting women. The people here are so immersed in their bubble that they think this is the way everywhere. I see fear in people's eyes. I have to say that this is the most dysfunctional city on the planet. Move here for six months and you will see. I used to think it was me, but I have talked to a lot of people (more than 100) and been vindicated many times.
Toronto is a place where the women walk around like they are special, but when you talk to them, nothing is there. Even the ones who are not attractive compared to others walk around like they are queens. Give me a break. It is so hard to meet women here that you have to be an asshole to survive. I'm telling you, I am not making this up. The problem is that if you talk about it, you come across as some whiney loser. I've had three girlfriends, and I tell you I don't know how I met them. Blind luck. I would so dearly like to get my revenge on this bloody city and its dead-like inhabitants.
My question is, are most North American women like this? Are you all cold, calculating, money-grubbing narcissists? I know what you are going to say. The usual. But this lonely existence has pushed me so far that I am forced to debase myself and come here for answers. I am an average/good-looking guy who is a substitute teacher. But the coldness here is so great, I defy anyone (especially male) to come here and tell me a colder place.
I don't know why, but where I am from (TORONTO), the women here are F$@%^$%&$%&$% cold. I defy ANYONE to disagree with me. I am not some loser (4 girlfriends) am average looking (30 yrs)but the women here think they are all that and a bag of chips but even the "ugly" ones both inside and out are given the time of day because the men here are wimps. The price of p*(%$y is very high here. The women say one thing but do another.As a guy you have to be either an asshole or loser. Women here do not know what it means to love or be loved. Even Marlon Brando would have a difficult time here.
But if you want a women, all you need is :MONEY. Not necessarily to spend on them, but to show that you are a good provider. Women may deny this but they are lying. Trust me.
However, this is the TRUTH about this city (TORONTO).
A spade is a spade, a rose is a rose and TORONTO women are COLD.
I DEFY anyone to come to this city and tell me otherwise.
Finally, the only saving grace is that I can leave and I will. I am going to EUROPE at the end of the month and I am going to see if other women are like this. I will keep you posted.
Did anyone ever see the movie " The Wrath of Khan "? Do you remember the final scene of Khan before he died and the Enterprise was trying to get away. When he finally detonated the Genesis device and declared his revenge with his "last breath at thee" ?
Well I would like to do this to the city of Toronto on a sociological/ideological level as one final F&%#&#%^&%#^ Y#^$%&^$%&%$& to this city.
It is death. A very subtle one.
Trust me.
You can tell me this is my fault, but I have spoken to other men and it is NOT. I am not the only one with the same thoughts/feelings.
Again, come to this city and see for yourself.
You will find that alot of men up here in Toronto are either wimps or assholes.
I try to be neither, but as with osmosis, the way the people are around here makes one become conditioned.
Toronto
NeXuS
posted 05-16-2002 11:59 PM
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Interesting.
I live in Toronto as well, but seeing as how I'm too young to have experience with mature women, I'll refrain from commenting on them.
I do think that this city is too bloody cold, the people here are stale and boring (except, of course, when the Leafs are in the play-offs), and our mayor Mel is, quite simply, Stupid McIdiot.
Rent's too high, our school system is in shambles, TTC fares keep going up, and if I see one more stupid skater kid I swear I'm going to kill someone.
In conclusion, I'm glad that I'm (hopefully) moving to New York in September.
Edit: Oh yeah, your comment about men being either wimps or assholes is dead on. That's practically no damned middle ground.
Tiziano Lariani
posted 05-17-2002 09:04 AM
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my god, do i HATE Toronto!
lived there a total of 8 months for university, then transferred back here to Milan cause i just couldn't take the climate, foood and people anymore.
You are right, toronto women are bad.
They're so superficial it leaves you dumbfounded, and contrary to appearances, they are only POLITE, but definitely not FRIENDLY.
And yes, they tend to me Narcisistic and honestly a bit domineering: i have a feeling that the "pussification" of the worldwide male population began in Canada.
I still have to meet a Canadian man who is able to give a politically incorrect statement or show a bit of balls, it is not in the Canadian tradition i believe.
Conclusion: Toronto sucks, come to Italy, the women are not easier but definitely sweeter and more feminine!
stever
posted 05-22-2002 04:15 PM
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Hey Taylor....yours is a very bitter post but I do agree with some of what you said....
I am 32 & have been in Toronto all my life....the women do have attitude here & if was not for the fact that I have a decent job & family issues here I would be off elsewhere....Toronto is a very cold & materialistic city...but I am sure other large cities are the same - New York, LA, Chicago......
Ottawa & Montreal are great cities..lots of friendly beautiful women...
Dark Nimbus
posted 05-22-2002 06:11 PM
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Damn, I'm glad to hear guys that have been living here all their lives can see this too. Being born in Europe I can clearly see the difference of living here and there. I have been living here for most of my life, but I still have a hard time getting used to the barriers the girls here put up. You're dead on about the girls being VERY materialistic, and living here is f*cking expensive. A typical night out cost me over $40, more when I take the GO up to the city.
I also tend to agree that most of the girls I've met don't have all that much going on upstairs. They're more concerned about how they're percieved from the physical stand-point then what comes out of their mouths.
I'm also noticing a greater increase of gang like mentality happening every year. Kids around here are a bunch of thugs who live in and for their cars. I just heard on the news Toronto is the number 1 city for illegal street racing now, not a big suprise to me. Funny thing is as I'm watching this I see a bunch of cops standing around checking out the cars instead of ticketing these morons.
I can't wait to finish school here and pack my bags for the states. After I make some money I'm thinking about going back to Europe where the women on average are better looking and more fun.
Good luck in Europe Taylor.
The Big Bad Wolf
posted 05-22-2002 06:36 PM
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I'm out on the East Coast, in Halifax, and the girls who come from the Toronto/Ontario area to go to college here, are exactly as you described them.
They act very uppeclass-like. I've busted a few of them down, but for the most part, they are a tremendous waste of time. I preffer women who are a little more down to earth, and not so stuck up. It must be the area, because many of my friends have said the same thing.
The Big Bad Wolf
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Fir3start3r
Taylor is right on one thing.
Toronto women can be cold.
When I used to live in Barrie and come down to the clubs in Toronto, there was always some prevasive air about them.
I have NO idea why, but they did.
Maybe I was just in the wrong clubs?
I never when to clubs looking to pick up women anyways (I never liked their attitude most of the time); I went for the music.
(Besides, I had a women most of the time)
Taylor, my suggestion would be to find a club out of the Toronto area.
They seem much friendly there for SOME reason.
For those of you friendly women Tkers; this isn't an attack on you.
It's just an observation from years of clubbing in and around the area.
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scruffy1
Taylor, I would have to agree.
Toronto women are cold, sullen faces individuals. And it is only in Toronto that I witness this.
I've had a girlfriend for almost 2 1/2 years (from Ottawa) so when I go out I'm not out to pickup... However, when I'm out partying in Toronto or even just driving down Yonge street it always strikes me as odd that the women here are such bitches, like something is owed to them or that they are better then everyone else.
Admittedly, most guys in Toronto are like that as well but the ratio of cold girls to cold guys is definitely much higher in the girls favour.
I just don't understand it. You go to Montreal and the women there are so pleasant and sexy and in Toronto they are all dark and dismissive, of everyone and look like they think that society owes them.
Can someone explain what women here in Toronto believe they have the right to be so condescending and rude to everyone??
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As for all you Torontonian apologists,
I was born here and none of you emperor without clothes hypocrits can tell me that this is a warm city,
that women are easy to meet.
If you want success, you better leave this city.
It has a low ceiling.
People here do not want success for others.
I would enjoy anyone telling me to my face that this citys women are easy to meet.
I not talking about fucking them.
Just to meet.
My name is Taylor, and I am the last friendly Torontonian left who is leaving.
There is one more thing.
Meeting men in Toronto, both straight and gay is very easy.
The women here have their heads in their asses.
The sad thing is, is that in Toronto it is accepted as normal.
Forever,
Taylor
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