So true, many of the things that have been mentioned..for me, the 1.5-2 year point was also a rocky time. Maybe something bugged her but she never told you about it and just blew up at it one day and felt that she couldn't take it anymore. I've talked to many friends who've gone through a breakup after a long relationship. It just takes time to forget her more...spend time with your friends...occupy your mind...

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Tunes that'll kick your azz:

Tony Walker - Field of Joy (Original Mix)
DJ Centaury & Wavetraxx - Dark Angel (Original Club Mix)
Flutlicht - Icarus (Original Daedalus Mix)

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Originally posted by Endlesswave Ummmmmmmmmm that's partly true, but I have heard time and time again that if you look for it, it won't come to you, so I'm not looking. Just if it happens it happens. And don't worry man, things will clear up and then you'll find a girl who is worthy of you.

That is true, you are on the right track. It won't come to you when you look for it but when you least expect it.

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Originally posted by TranceGeek you've just gone nuts dude

Makes sense to me dude!!! That's the way life is, but for making sense many people is seen as nutz until they xperience the same thing. Keep it up!

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Originally posted by fantom Not everyone... I guess I am of the rare ones that let them come to me, just like anything else in life. I've been chasing too many things in life, and felt real bad (and went thru a lot of bad experiences) when I didn't "catch" what I was chasing, so I just figured - why bother? Let it come to me... and it's been great ever since! (does this make any sense to anyone out there... or have I just gone fucken nuts?!)

I couldn't agree more! It makes perfect sense man, the only thing is some of us cannot just sit there and wait (I have had the hardest time with that previously, but I'm learning). I used to look like a madman (never had a g/f before) so I kept trying. It got me nowhere. Now I haven't really been looking, who knows, something may (already has possibly?) come up.

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Originally posted by corsten_addict I was listening to Riva - Time is the Healer (Hiver & Hammer Remix)..... "Move on, look to new horizons Seek and you will find Let go, you've been here for too long Just follow the signs Time is the healer Love is the stranger Put the hurt behind you Break the chains that bind you Time is the healer Life is the teacher Put the hurt behind you Break the chains that bind you Forgive, does it really matter? Make a brand new start Forget, could be for the better Just follow your heart" Regards

my thoughts exactly, i'm pumping it right now!

better luck in the future man...

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Originally posted by fantom Not everyone... I guess I am of the rare ones that let them come to me, just like anything else in life. I've been chasing too many things in life, and felt real bad (and went thru a lot of bad experiences) when I didn't "catch" what I was chasing, so I just figured - why bother? Let it come to me... and it's been great ever since! (does this make any sense to anyone out there... or have I just gone fucken nuts?!)

damn right!! it works out well too, specially for me, cuz when i don't try, i seem to be better at being myself and just a regular 'go-with-the-flow' kinda guy. Screw the whole 'chasing' BS...

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Originally posted by TravelDog Oh woman... Yep it's kinda hard after a "unexpected" break. I can tell. Been with this girl for 8 years. But then one day...things fall apart. I have to agree that life goes on. I still figure out how, but we all know that life goes on. Time will do it's work, like it always does. Sit back, enjoy the time you are free and restless. I know, easier said then done...but you know I am right. ~greeTZ

tru say .. i mean u can't expect to marry the first person you actually hook up with , so you know forsure that there's gonna be a breakup somewhere down the road.. just have to brace yourself as best you can and hope to get over it and move on .. or aka. always prepare for the worse. and if that never happens, all the better !

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Bah...you will get over it man. You won't be able to get ur mind off of it for the first lil while but eventually you'll go on and find someone better and find out ur old girlfriend is a washed up crack whore.

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