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| quote: | Originally posted by SYSTEM-J
Although I imagine your problem is simply pining over some girl who doesn't want you and being unable to move on. The best way to avoid that kind of thing is to quick and decisive - if you like a girl, make a move quickly. If you can't, put out of your mind immediately. If she starts messing you about, bin her off and block her out of your life. That's how most people work - have a shot and if it doesn't work, shrug and move on before you pointlessly develop emotional attachment with a non-starter and end up pining. But because you're starved of female attention, any time you sense the possibility of something romantic happening you'll build it up too much in your head and you won't dare act quickly in case it evaporates and you're back to nothing. This is basically what I did for all my teenage years, and eventually you need to learn your lessons and snap the fuck out of it. |
Tried that, made move, binned off, but she is persistent and I am stupid. I have no idea why I would do this shit over and over again and it boggles my mind to no end why she would voluntarily come back and try and start up a friendship with someone who has made it blatantly clear that with her I will probably always be looking for more. It's been a years of her/I saying "I'm sick of this drama don't talk to me." and then a few months later out of blue her saying "I'm in Seattle, lets meet up!"
I honestly do not get it.
And with that I am done on this subject. I have far more frustrating issues right now, like why the fuck this DSP filter is crashing out of the blue, causing annoying high pitched squeals, and randomly introducing distortion. That is actually what is frustrating me the most at the moment, because like the issue above, I thought I had it fixed, and now it's back again. 
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