"Relationships aren't easy" is such a crock of shit. They require the work of conscious effort, yes, but if it's "hard" to know how to be in and maintain relationships with people, then you're doing it wrong. It is only as difficult as you make it.
Aug-25-2014 14:15
Jon_Snow
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If you don't get married does that mean you are technically still dating?
Is a gay relationship harder because there are two dicks instead of one?
Aug-25-2014 14:36
Swamper
Webmonstah
Registered: Jan 2000
Location: Toronto, Canada
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Originally posted by Silky Johnson
"Relationships aren't easy" is such a crock of shit. They require the work of conscious effort, yes, but if it's "hard" to know how to be in and maintain relationships with people, then you're doing it wrong. It is only as difficult as you make it.
Relationships are easy when people are honest and trustworthy... the benefit of our digital footprint these days is that while it is much easier to show others what you are up to ...it is also much harder to not be called out on your tangled web of lies.
FB status update: Girl A is at Club YYZ with 4 others.
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Aug-25-2014 19:28
Vivid Boy
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Location: T.O
ya but thats not a web of lies that shit happens to me too.
Im laying on my couch like fuck it im not going out tonight. then someone randomly calls me and is like " i got tickets for YYZ want to roll with?"
and im like fuck ya!
Aug-25-2014 19:32
Swamper
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Registered: Jan 2000
Location: Toronto, Canada
^ That's an exception... you know what I mean.
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Aug-25-2014 19:54
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Sometimes you are sick, sick of seeing someone. I think facebook detectives are more annoying.
Aug-25-2014 20:06
Silky Johnson
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Yeah, and if you don't feel like seeing someone, you should have emotional intelligence enough to be able to just say so instead of telling lies or playing games.
Aug-25-2014 20:37
looom
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Location: Tartu
It's always a competition, even if you don't want it to be.
Aug-25-2014 20:38
Vivid Boy
TA's GodFather
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O
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Originally posted by Silky Johnson
Yeah, and if you don't feel like seeing someone, you should have emotional intelligence enough to be able to just say so instead of telling lies or playing games.
or at the very least tell her you think shes fat, this way you make it easier for the next guy to bang her
I mean at the end of the day this is what its all about right? shattering girls egos until they sleep with you to feel better.
Aug-25-2014 21:48
Silky Johnson
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Aug-25-2014 23:45
Moral Hazard
Oppressing the 99%
Registered: Mar 2005
Location: with the 1%
quote:
Originally posted by Silky Johnson
"Relationships aren't easy" is such a crock of shit. They require the work of conscious effort, yes, but if it's "hard" to know how to be in and maintain relationships with people, then you're doing it wrong. It is only as difficult as you make it.
I have to agree with you, my relationship with my wife is the easiest and most natural thing in my life. It's pretty simple really... when you decide to enter into a relationship of any consequence you need to resolve yourself that the needs of couple supersede those of you as an individual, once you do that then the rest just kinda falls into place.
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you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.
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lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down
Aug-26-2014 12:02
SYSTEM-J
IDKFA.
Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Manchester
My life is easy, so everyone with a different experience must be doing it wrong.