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| quote: | Originally posted by Izzy
this is the topic i kinda wanted to talk about in the 'stubberness' thread...
i hate to see people come to conclusions like the one you made... open minded people can and do change thier views when presented with a reasonable arguement. more then that its an opprotuniry where one can express his opinions on issues, to have an outlet, and formulate his beliefs. |
Well, not only that either.
A single argument isn't usually enough to topple beliefs that I've held for a reason (though it can and *has* happened to me) but in a more likely scenario, a perspective that's different from your own makes you think about something that you might consider "old hat" again, and reevaluate why it is that you *do* feel that way, and/or force you to alter the way you feel about an issue even if only slightly.
An addendum here, and additional fact there, and voila, you're starting to become a more well-rounded individual, with a more realistic understanding of what different people think, and why they think that. Even if you don't agree, you still become a better individual IMO if you can start to see things from their perspective.
I like talking with people that agree with me, but I also like debating with people who don't. Debate forces me to think and speak more concisely, and it usually makes my new perspective and arguments that much stronger than my old ones.
Edit: Removed some near flame ranting and such...
Last edited by CortexBomb on Nov-10-2002 at 23:16
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