It's all about make up sex

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Originally posted by X-Hale It's all about make up sex

i agree make up sex is good

it takes some bad relationships to get to the good relationship and learn to appretiate it.

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Originally posted by tranceaholic it takes some bad relationships to get to the good relationship and learn to appretiate it.

Yeh wether it be your own or not. I've learned from my parents mistakes...

thanks for the kind words... this one has been particularly hard for me. we weren't toget her long at all but i haven't been able to deal with losing him. i remember when my ex of 1 1/2 yrs broke up with me 2 years ago i cried for maybe 2 hours then saw the bright side and began to move on and flourish in being single. with this one i have been crying for over 2 weeks and i have yet to see anything positive in not having him anymore. hopefully i find a distraction soon...

^^^^^^^ you'll find a distraction. It'll pass...something will just come along and then it'll be over. I had a date last night with a girl my friend is trying to set me up with...she's nice...looks are alright but I mean there's no spark. I hate that.

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Originally posted by Endlesswave ^^^^^^^ you'll find a distraction. It'll pass...something will just come along and then it'll be over. I had a date last night with a girl my friend is trying to set me up with...she's nice...looks are alright but I mean there's no spark. I hate that.

yeah i hear ya. i went to lunch with this guy yesterday. he seems nice enough but he is vastly uninteresting to me and full of pessimism. my standards are so much higher having had someone who i couldn't see any flaws in. now i look for men with all thde qualities i want cause i know at least one out there exists like that and i have a feeling it will be hard to find again.

Yepz. I mean I don't see me not being friends with her, it's just anything more I can't see myself doing. It's like nothing grabbed my attention and made me go "WOW!".

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Originally posted by Endlesswave Yepz. I mean I don't see me not being friends with her, it's just anything more I can't see myself doing. It's like nothing grabbed my attention and made me go "WOW!".

yeah i hear ya. that is what my ex is telling me he feels about me.

here is a song for y'all (be sure to read the whole thing to get the message) :

THE EAGLES - WASTED TIME

Well, baby, there you stand
with your little head down in your hand.
Oh my God, you can't believe it's happening again.
Your baby's gone and you're all alone and it looks like the end.

And you're back out on the street
and you're tryin' to remember.
How do you start it over? You don't know if you can.
You don't care much for a stranger's touch but you can't hold your man.

You never thought you'd be alone
this far down the line
and I know what's been on your mind,
you're afraid it's all been wasted time.

The autumn leaves have got you thinking
about the first time that you fell.
You didn't love the boy too much,
no no, you just loved the boy too well.
Farewell.

So you live from day to day
and you dream about tomorrow, oh.
And the hours go by like minutes and the shadows come to stay.
So ya take a little something to make them go away.

And I could have done so many things, baby,
if I could only stop my mind
from wond'rin' what I left behind
and from worryin' 'bout this wasted time.

Ooh, another love had come and gone.
Ooh, and the years keep rushing on.
I remember what you told me before you went out on your own:
sometimes to keep it together we got to leave it alone.

So you can get on with your search, baby,
and I can get on with mine.
And maybe someday we will find
that it wasn't really wasted time.

--dannyB--

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Originally posted by decibel08 here is a song for y'all (be sure to read the whole thing to get the message) : THE EAGLES - WASTED TIME Well, baby, there you stand with your little head down in your hand. Oh my God, you can't believe it's happening again. Your baby's gone and you're all alone and it looks like the end. And you're back out on the street and you're tryin' to remember. How do you start it over? You don't know if you can. You don't care much for a stranger's touch but you can't hold your man. You never thought you'd be alone this far down the line and I know what's been on your mind, you're afraid it's all been wasted time. The autumn leaves have got you thinking about the first time that you fell. You didn't love the boy too much, no no, you just loved the boy too well. Farewell. So you live from day to day and you dream about tomorrow, oh. And the hours go by like minutes and the shadows come to stay. So ya take a little something to make them go away. And I could have done so many things, baby, if I could only stop my mind from wond'rin' what I left behind and from worryin' 'bout this wasted time. Ooh, another love had come and gone. Ooh, and the years keep rushing on. I remember what you told me before you went out on your own: sometimes to keep it together we got to leave it alone. So you can get on with your search, baby, and I can get on with mine. And maybe someday we will find that it wasn't really wasted time. --dannyB--

that doesn't realyl help any.