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Originally posted by bossi Secondly i was not trying to know her, be her friend/ get in her pants or anything else. All i was looking for was a simple nod or a "hello" in return for mine. Its common courtesy, thats all

With all due respect...when it comes to guys and clubs...there's a lot of creeps out there. Not saying you're one at ALL or that ANYONE on TA is a creep. But intitially if I'm approached by a guy at a club I may not be the most friendly to him b/c I don't know who it is. I may give a dirty look or just walk away. I may not. It's an "in the moment thing" I guess for me. I've been approached by a few nasty guys, some who have in fact grabbed me, or made me feel uncomfortable. So it's natural for one to be hesitant.

And if you say you met Lars before...there are PLENTY of people that I have met before in bars (or anywhere for that matter) and have had conversations with...and I don't remember them the next time or two I see them, and thus may not act super friendly b/c I don't remember them. Not to mention, having a few drinks tends to alter that memory!

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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* I think you're the exception...we have to be your friend or you'll take TA away from us.

not true. swamper has to be nice to me! or else ill stop posting and ta dies. he knows im the backbone.

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy not true. swamper has to be nice to me! or else ill stop posting and ta dies. he knows im the backbone.

You keep telling yourself that Eric if it helps you sleep better at night.

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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* You keep telling yourself that Eric if it helps you sleep better at night.

haha holy shit! since when did lisa become so agressive with her posts


tota is changin

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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* With all due respect...when it comes to guys and clubs...there's a lot of creeps out there. Not saying you're one at ALL or that ANYONE on TA is a creep. But intitially if I'm approached by a guy at a club I may not be the most friendly to him b/c I don't know who it is. I may give a dirty look or just walk away. I may not. It's an "in the moment thing" I guess for me. I've been approached by a few nasty guys, some who have in fact grabbed me, or made me feel uncomfortable. So it's natural for one to be hesitant. And if you say you met Lars before...there are PLENTY of people that I have met before in bars (or anywhere for that matter) and have had conversations with...and I don't remember them the next time or two I see them, and thus may not act super friendly b/c I don't remember them. Not to mention, having a few drinks tends to alter that memory!

Lisa.. thats an excellent reply. Thank You for pointing that out. When youre a guy that isnt a permanent hound at the club you forget that others are not the same. * waits for the guys to me up * Maybe it is beneficial for girl to have this blocking mechanism. Good post.

I agree some guys are just complete assholes when it comes to approaching ladies at clubs...they wouldn't fuck off
In fact, I had to "save" a girl at Guvy last sat. by holding her hand (well she asked me to ) and pretending that I was her b/f

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy haha holy shit! since when did lisa become so agressive with her posts tota is changin

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Originally posted by bossi Lisa.. thats an excellent reply. Thank You for pointing that out. When youre a guy that isnt a permanent hound at the club you forget that others are not the same. * waits for the guys to me up * Maybe it is beneficial for girl to have this blocking mechanism. Good post.

Thank you. So take this into consideration if Lars was not "friendly" to you when she first saw you. She is a close friend of mine and have NEVER known her to be a bitch like that to people she knows. There are a few TAs that I probably wasn't the friendliest the first time or two I met them b/c I didn't recogonize them and had my "creepo" guard on.

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Originally posted by AC-Milan I agree some guys are just complete assholes when it comes to approaching ladies at clubs...they wouldn't fuck off In fact, I had to "save" a girl at Guvy last sat. by holding her hand (well she asked me to ) and pretending that I was her b/f

I had to do that at a gig in Space, Miami for one of my fellow female FLTAs.

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Originally posted by AC-Milan I agree some guys are just complete assholes when it comes to approaching ladies at clubs...they wouldn't fuck off In fact, I had to "save" a girl at Guvy last sat. by holding her hand (well she asked me to ) and pretending that I was her b/f

A guy in the KH tried to dance with me once and I just moved away a bit, and then he grabbed my wrist and said "I want to dance with you". I literally had to yank my hand away from him and run away. I was alone at the time b/c I was looking for my boyfriend.

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How could I forget...highlight of the night...Josh challenging Nada to a dance off by copying her moves. OH DEAR GOD! I don't think I've ever laughed so hard in my ENTIRE life! Too bad no one got a picture!

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Originally posted by bossi If you really want to discuss the sketchiness factor, i have a really detrimental picture of you with my distant sketchpad acquaintance that im sure you don’t want everyone to see. Ok hun.

ok threatening ppl is not cool.
also theres a difference between actually being a sketchy person and looking sketchy for whatever reason. i think u completley missed the point.

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Originally posted by Cosmic Fur It's like PMS coincided with all the TOTAs this month, including the men....

yeah even LKD is using always for his nose.