I have a few buddies who are into going after younger chicks. I always kill em about it because I think its sad. They're 20 and going after 16-17. Like someone said there's a major difference during those ages. It was bad though last year one my friends who was 19 at the time was talking to someone who was 13! He said she looked 16...needless to say I couldn't be associated with him while he was seeing her.

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Originally posted by occrider If you're in college (let's say even post freshman) and you start dating a girl in hs, then you have serious problems.

My point exactly!

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Originally posted by bettsy #cassiopeia Girls need to realize one thing and stop being naive (dont know if you belong in that category but here it goes). Usually when a guy is nice to you, being understanding and so on, he wants to get inside your pants. The difference between young and old men are that the later have more skills in the art of missleading girls. Of course, if you ask your boyfriend if this is the case, he will answere no. Well thats bullshit pretty much, although its sympathetic bullshit.

Too funny...so what you're saying is that anyone you go out with just wants to sleep with you? I mean I don't know of anyone that would go out with a guy/girl who's opening line is "What's going on you fat *explitive*?..."
So, anyone looking to go out is going to be nice to you...be it a front, or not...and since you believe the ONLY reason they are nice is for bedroom olympics...and you agree to it, only means you would let the person into your pants. That's about as shallow answer about guys I've heard...Obviously it is based on some truths...but it's simply another stereotype...and the only scapegoat you have is you started out with "Usually".

It's sad to think some people think that a nice guy is just faking being nice. They do make nice guys you know...that don't necessarily want to shag everything that walks.

Bahhhh and I thought I was a nice guy...and I'm flaming...ROFL..oh well...I'll probably fit in better now.

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Out here, us older people (i.e. 26) are more limited to younger women (below 25). They are more of them that are not married yet, never been married, have kids etc. No one has mentioned it's simply a percentages game. The older a person gets...the more likely they are already taken.

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Originally posted by cassiopeia And what is that supposed to mean?

you know what you want.

enough said!

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if any of you are hearing shitty remarks about guys from canadians or Americans, it is because our culture/s is/are currently undergoing a gangster stage where sucking and fucking to a bass beat is the onllllly cool thing to do. Love and tenderness is something you MIGHT do alone, but we have the f332ing "dont hate the player hate the game" mentality going on.

heres more food for thought (that was clever youll see why)

developed countries are hitting puberty earlier and earlier because of our rich diets and access to proteins and fatty foods and stuff. My dad just came back from a medical expidition in Africa and he said that most kids there dont hit puberty until 16-17

in the US the average is 12. people arent teaching their kids to cope with this stuff, so you get a 12 year old girl with huge tits and a 12 year old boy who gets BFNRs (boners for no reason) and has to hide after class until it goes away sometimes sitting there staring at eachother as flashes of raw hormonal energy spark about their little heads. Their lack of judgment ignites the mixture and now you get 18 year olds whove been fuckin for 6 years. then they realize they are still fucking 12 year old minded guys because they never needed to mature to land girlfriends. So girls finally snap out of and (unfortunately without a "used goods" sticker across their forehead) and go looking for a "nice guy" whos older and didnt fall into that bullshit trap. Then he finds out shes been having sex for approximately ever. its all bullshit. I hate everyone. Im surrounded by players and whores. The only cool people I meet these days are from Hobumkin, Nowhere who dont get pop culture rammed in their faces.

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Originally posted by eye_03 im only 17.5 and i got my eye on a very nice woman, who is 1month my junior. i hope it works out for me

ok, with your sig i'm wondering how you don't have hundreds of hoes lining up down the street just to pleasure you.

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Originally posted by Orbax ..The only cool people I meet these days are from Hobumkin, Nowhere who dont get pop culture rammed in their faces. /rant

Hometown: West Glacier, MT...Population 0 (it's evacuated due to fire (Glacier Park)...normally bout 200 peeps...i.e. Hobumkin.
nice to meet ya ...and thanks for the indirect compliment.

[edit] and i do agree...pop culture doesn't shock and awe small towns as much..course pickins is mighty slim...I'm just glad I'm not related to any of them...ROFL [edit]

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Originally posted by bettsy Usually when a guy is nice to you, being understanding and so on, he wants to get inside your pants. The difference between young and old men are that the later have more skills in the art of missleading girls. Of course, if you ask your boyfriend if this is the case, he will answere no. Well thats bullshit pretty much, although its sympathetic bullshit.

I completely disagree. Me, nor any of my friends, have ever said anything to a girl just to get in her pants.

I have to agree with the main topic though, HS girls dating guys in college is stupid as hell. And I'm not talking like she is a senior and he is a freshman in college. I mean when he is like a junior in college and she is a sophomore in high school. It makes me want to smack the girls and be like 'don't you realize he's taking advantage of you, you idiot?'. I will agree there are tons of scummy guys out there, but girls don't have to be afraid of EVERY single guy there age. If my little sister ever starts dating a guy who is like 6+ years older, I'll find the guy and beat him. Girls need to be more mature and look at who is around them. I don't go out looking for a 23 year old! Some girl who is my age (going to be a junior) wants to start dating my brother. My brother doesn't know much better, but that girl is sick. That's just wierd. I've never had a girlfriend but I'm not so desperate as to go out with an eigth grader.

If you're dating a 14 year old and you are 20 you're probably really ugly.

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Originally posted by TheTornado If you're dating a 14 year old and you are 20 you're probably really ugly.

yet that still poses the inquiry, if you are in fact,
DAMN UGLY (yes it happens, beautiful girl that was
in my class got a 19 year old UGLY ass boyfriend
when she was 14) HOW THE HELL do they manage to get
these girls?

i mean, these days, if she's your same age, she says
"he's immature", if youre mature, she says "he's ugly",
if your both mature and good looking, "he's no fun",
and finally if youre everything, "he's not my type."

yet an immature ugly ass 19 year old cradle robbing
thug gets a beautiful girl that is 14! sorry for the
generalization, no offence to women, but damn, i think
its this country...

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Well ive dated 1 girl that was 4 years younger then me, and let me tell you its hell, she gets bitchy, is possesive and always questioning your actions, even if they are positive towards her.

Not only that, she became very boring conversation wise, it sucked as she hadn't developed in her brain matter...

She looked older but that was about the only thing...

Never again my friends...

Society sees this as a negative because that is exactly what it is... a NEGATIVE thing, since you are both in different stages of life.

But here's a thought...

Here i am... 21 and doing 1st year of Uni, since i went to college before this... anyways... there's this girl who is 17 that likes me, and im like.. you are nice and all.. but i don't think its gonna work out, cause of the age differences, since she's in her last year of HS.

But there's this other girl, 19 and doing her first year of Uni with me... so im like hmmm.. but this girl is a little weird.. lol...

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I don't know why but... since I'm 17.. I always found easier for me to get girls older than me than ones younger...
maybe you should try looking for some older girl... who could be more "mature" and see what kind of guy you really are.
I'm not talking about dating an old mom.. lol nah like 1 to 3 years older... It might work out ... you never know..
it did for me 3 times !


I also believe it is wrong to date a young girl with more than 4 years of age difference... that is until she's 21. after that well if she wants an old man well its up to her.

but hey... when they get older...
a 45 with a 37 is ok
a 57 with a 51 is ok
a 38 with a ... you get the picture