Noooo!! Cause then she will think all you were sticking around for was the ass you were hoping to get, and now that you can't get it, you are fucking off. NOT GOOD! Then she wont bother with you period.

sweet, thanks for your adivce, although she has my email, number, and in turn, i have hers. she told me that her longest relationship was 2months.. so thats good, yet also quite bad. hopefully, if i continue to be friends with her, i can get her to be my gf after the breakup. ..but i gotta treat her right, so i can keep her longer than 2months

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Originally posted by davinox Forget dat trick, playa. You gosta keep yo pimp on! Find another ho! Find some bitch that won't just jump on any ol' dick. Find some bitch that'll just jump on yo dick. Ya hurd?

Eye_3... if u ever wanna get a decent girl, don't listen to Davinox.. he tries way too hard and is too disrespectful to us girls out there.. calling us bitches.. what the hell is that?? ...

yea, hes a true playa.. but i take no seriousness to them, only as Hilarious stuff

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GoodAnyway, that's really sweet.. hopefully she can realize how much u actually care about her and if all goes well, things last between you two..

I would just cut her off. Dont accept her calls IMs Emails for about 2 weeks (longer if you arent on a couple of times a week basis). She will become more and more frantic to contact you. Women are fucked up because as soon as you become unavailable they want to be with you so bad. Every time i get sick of a girls shit and dont even tell her about it and just ignore her, she goes fucking APE to be with me again. Like i said, women are fucked up, and if you want her to think about stuff, cut her off. Dont answer a single phone call, im serious. that will fuck it up and let her know that you really ARE at her beck and call.

so ignore her totally for the couple of weeks.

Then finally answer the phone and sound kind of uncaring "Hey, whats goin on ____" she'll be kind of non plussed at your attitude. Then you go in depth about what you think about her dating that asshole.

say things like:
"You are dating a dickweed. You are dating a tumbling tumbling dickweed" (American Psycho, will work on 3 levels, funny, true, and reference to a good movie)

if she mentions your standoffishness "Im not going to be a part of you being unhappy"

if she mentions that you staying away makes her unhappy (score) say "You are solving the wrong problem. Me leaving isnt the problem. Your boyfriend ruining your life is the problem."

and so on.

KEY: Dont let her hang up angry. if she gets pissed at the remakrs let her talk for a bit and then work it around to use another one.

if you can end that kind of brutal conversation on the "I just care about you too much to not tell you my opinion, and I hope that you and I will be able to spend time together again soon" kind of note, youre IN.

my 2c

and dont listen to women about what they want, unless you turn it 180 degrees around.

not all girls are manipulative and say the opposite of what they mean.
SOME girls know what they want.
i'd like to think i'm an exception to that generalization...i don't know though. i guess you'd have to ask my boyfriend.

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philippe - In MEXICO says: ur the most clever pothead i know philippe - In MEXICO says: u deserve a fucking medal

its not that you are purposefully manipulative. Its that you really dont know what you want. So i guess you could say that generally women are misguided not manipulating. Thats why the whole "No, means yes" joke is funny. Cuz theres that "no (take me you devil you)" kind of no that the girl might think thats what shes saying but her brain is trying to tell her to shut up kind of thing.

but i'm saying, personally, that's not how i think.
i don't say things i don't mean.
i don't tell someone one thing and expect another.
i know what i want.
i think you over-generalize a lot of women.
most of my friends aren't like that either...
well...
maybe we're just cooler.

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philippe - In MEXICO says: ur the most clever pothead i know philippe - In MEXICO says: u deserve a fucking medal

hehe, I dunnoooooo. yes i agree that the cool ones are the ones who dont have that kind of thinking. Which fits in with the idea that most people arent