look, you don't have to come down on yourself... but if your going to complain and ask for advice.. DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT AND TAKE THE ADVICE! otherwise there is no point in us giving you feedback.

ok

is there only one resort?

someone give me some options...(ideas) on the situation

should i tell her, "wtf u doin online chatting"?...i mean wtf

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec im a 20 yr old moron

oh! silly me, i just read this again and i realize now that you are calling anuneventrade a moron, not yourself!

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec blah blah....this world hates me.

Nah, just tell her that when a guy tells a girl he wants to be friends it means he's not interested in her, not attracted to her, he's out there, looking for something better...

And then, a few minutes later, tell her you just wanna be friends. Explain that you're not mature enough yet to handle a "real" relationship.

Then, since you both have herpes, you might as well enjoy each others contaminated state, so ask if she wants to be "friends with benefits."

If she does, report the results to Sand Leaper on a weekly basis.

Seriously, my feeling is if she's flirting and talking to guys on the internet, severe the ties. If she's just bored and talking to people because she doesn't have anything else to do or she wants to avoid homework (like I do), don't stress it.

im not good at this long term bullshit

im use to short term screw bang laterz...scenario.

Look , we did give you ideas/options...

1)dump her
2)kill her

As my PREVIOUS posts suggest, choose #1. If you can't even trust her to use the internet it is hopeless. Pull your head out of your ass and realize this.

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Originally posted by Echo of Silence Nah, just tell her that when a guy tells a girl he wants to be friends it means he's not interested in her, not attracted to her, he's out there, looking for something better... And then, a few minutes later, tell her you just wanna be friends. Explain that you're not mature enough yet to handle a "real" relationship. Then, since you both have herpes, you might as well enjoy each others contaminated state, so ask if she wants to be "friends with benefits." If she does, report the results to Sand Leaper on a weekly basis. Seriously, my feeling is if she's flirting and talking to guys on the internet, severe the ties. If she's just bored and talking to people because she doesn't have anything else to do or she wants to avoid homework (like I do), don't stress it.

she hasnt been onliine in months..

she just did this once today because her roomate got a computer..new computer.
but i want to stop the problem which could be an issue in the future...because of how we met..u know wut i mean?

i like the idea of killing her.

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec she hasnt been onliine in months.. she just did this once today because her roomate got a computer..new computer. but i want to stop the problem which could be an issue in the future...because of how we met..u know wut i mean?

Yes, I know what you mean.

If you want to continue the relationship, tell her how you feel. Tell her how it bothers you and why. She should care about your feelings. Maybe, she'll decide not to chat anymore or maybe just talking about it will make you feel better about it. When you hold it in and think about it, it becomes huge inside of your brain and it'll drive you crazy.

At some point, its important to trust.

Also, don't forget. When you told her that it bothered you that she was talking to her ex, she stopped.

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Originally posted by Echo of Silence Yes, I know what you mean. If you want to continue the relationship, tell her how you feel. Tell her how it bothers you and why. She should care about your feelings. Maybe, she'll decide not to chat anymore or maybe just talking about it will make you feel better about it. When you hold it in and think about it, it becomes huge inside of your brain and it'll drive you crazy. At some point, its important to trust. Also, don't forget. When you told her that it bothered you that she was talking to her ex, she stopped.

i know she did...she has changed entirely for me....how should i tell her tonite..she said she gonna call me tonite so i can tell her my problems with her.

i want to tell her, "theres no such thing as guy friends online...they see ur pic and dont see someone they wanna be friends with...they see someone they wanna screw with...obviously..im seeing this relationship is a big fukin joke to u....hiding from me online and chatting..u lied to me saying u were gonna stop chatting...I dont understand wtf is up with u"

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec she hasnt been onliine in months.. she just did this once today because her roomate got a computer..new computer. but i want to stop the problem which could be an issue in the future...because of how we met..u know wut i mean?

dude, i know exactly what u mean. im also in a very loving relationship myself... i have my gf gagged and tied up duct tape in the basement, that way i never have to worry bout her cheating on me... plz excuse me my mother's calling me... yes mother... i well take care of that snooping neighbor...

*picks up knife and puts on a wig*

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Originally posted by igottaknow dude, i know exactly what u mean. im also in a very loving relationship myself... i have my gf gagged and tied up duct tape in my basement, that way i never have to worry bout her cheating on me... plz excuse me my mother's calling me... yes mother... i well take care of that snooping neighbor... *picks up knife and put on a wig*

Im so traumatized....and to be honest we're both whooped on each other.
All her friends went clubbin last night..and she stayed home and talked to me on the phone