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Originally posted by StereoPrincess Has anyone of you cheated or have been cheated on?? What happened with the relationship?? Just going through some hard stuff and just wanna know. Is it possible for love to over come such hurt??

I've cheated on my ex ..... I can tell you that it hurt me so much though , of what I've done, I felt so dirty and stuff.. Once I thought, if she ever cheated on me , I would fell baaaaad , I mean , not even the word bad is big enough to explain how aweful i'd feel .. love can be the thing to hurt you the most !!!!!!

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Seeing your from Windsor. Your live in one of the hardest cities to stay faithfull in every weekend thousands of young hottie american girls come over too Canada to party in Windsor. All they want to do is get drunk party and maybe get a little kissy kissy from a boy. Man did they ever love canadian guy's . So props to ya if you can keep it in your pants living there I had a Hell of a time.

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there shouldnt every be cheating going on...... if you cheat then u dont need to be in a relationship...... and if you have the balls to cheat on someone ...u should have the balls to call it off before u do so....no point in being in a relationship if u want to go with somene else ......... i say if you want to get with someone else call the relationship off before u do .......

i just have to say.. j_spot and smackdown u guys are just dogs and not every guy is like u.. reading your post made me sick. im sure its really reasuring for stereoprincess to be reading that BULLSHIT!!! and j_spot u said that when u cheated u felt bad, thats the most bullshit ive heard out your mouth. im sorry but in my mind there is no way that could be true. you guys are too insecure so you need to play games. get a life.. u could very well be hurting people by acting the way u do.. im sorry but hurting people is just not all that funny to me. u guys get no respect in my book. but seeing as what u are, dogs, im sure that does not matter to u.

j_spot this is a very lame excuse:
Screw the its genetics..I cant help myself, I need to procreate argument. Guys my age just cant stay in a serious relationship

dont go speaking like every other guy is just like u.. believe me i know that a lot of guys are dogs just like u, but not all of them are. a lot of them are not!! and if guys your age cant stay in a serious relationship then why do they feel the need to PRETEND they can. your full of shit.. quit making excuses.

u do not have to be in a serious relation at your age.. im 21 and have not been in a serious relationship cause u know what????? i dont want to be!!! so i dont. and i dont pretend i can.

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I'm young, having fun right now. I don't want to be tied down by women. A lot have already tried to do that to me and it pisses me off. I could see if I was married and cheating then you soulc call me a dog, but at this age in these days and times to find the right person you have to go through a lot. I know people dont agree with what I do but I don't like breaking up with people, it's another affliction I have. Anyways hopefully I don't get shot by one of my psycho ex's.

UD RATHER CHEAT ON SOMEONE THEN BREAK IT OFF..... OMG THATS QUITE POSSIBLY ONE OF THE DUMBEST REASONS IN THE WORLD!!!!!!!!!!!!! im just so glad i dont have friends or boyfriends like u.

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"For me trance is when you hear music and you forget everything around you. You forget where you are and what you're doing, you just hear the tunes." - DJ Tiesto-

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess Has anyone of you cheated or have been cheated on?? What happened with the relationship?? Just going through some hard stuff and just wanna know. Is it possible for love to over come such hurt??

i got cheated on by my first love...took him back...i wouldn't recommend it. move on and become a cold hearted bitch and just play all the men out there for the fools that they are.


hahahaha.

no but seriously, when i got cheated on in high school, it royally fucked me up...it was terrible. if your man cheated on you and you're feeling bitter and don't trust him, then move on babe. it'll hurt at first but i promise it won't hurt forever...people move on. you'll look back in a year or two and think, "why did i waste my friggin TIME on him!" when u can laugh about it and have no hard feelings, then that's when u know you're truly over it. at least that's how it is for me...


as for me cheating...i'm not gonna front and say that i would never. i don't really know. but i can honestly tell u that i would never cheat on the wonderful man i have now. i believe it's all about who you're with, so it depends.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

yup definitely i feel fucked up. i have no idea where to go from here. i want to stay together but he feels so guilty about it that he doesn't wanna talk to me. maybe i'm just blind and he is still with that chick as we speak. i just don't want to believe that a person that i have been together with for 3 and a half years would choose some floozie over me especially when we have been though so much together. so i'm not living with him and i'm trying to forget about it for a couple weeks. i cry all the time, why?? shit i don't know. hate being rejected i guess.

Leave his ass. Trust me once a cheater always a cheater. Take it from me.

damn..i took a beat down there, but I deserve it. I know what Ive done is wrong. There is a good reason that I am single now, and its my choice mostly. NONE and I say none(except one who is gay) of my friends who date alot have stayed faithfull. Everysingle one of us has cheated.
I dont think its ok..there is a reason I puke afterwards, I feel guilty as hell, and for a good reason. And of all those times I cheated, the only time I stuck with the person was when the cheating was a peck on the lips, and then I stopped it cuz I cared about the girl I was with. Most of the time I would cheat, and then break up with the girl. Am I proud of what Ive done? HELL NO. Am I ashamed of it..certain cases yes. Others no. I do feel bad..like wrenching pit of my stomach Ive gone to the clinic to find out its anxiety bad.

U only know what Ive told you layla. The rest of the details (ie in one case, telling the girl, I need more room, U r suffocating me and having her giggle and say Deal with it, while kissing me on the forehead..she may as well have been dumped there..but im not about to dump a girl in the main hall @ school, so that night, I cheated on her. Less than 12 hours later I was single and not single again. or one night while @ a party when My girl starts going @ it with some other guy in front of me...who is also taken. His girl and I end up together..next day it was all normal(damn..im a swinger)

Layla, what u said hurts. damn..the last time I cheated on a girl was...in grade 12. Now im third year college. Im not about to do it again. Ive messed some people up, and been messed with myself, and I dont really enjoy either. Especially knowing that somebodies views on life changed because I cheated on her. Little side note, I have yet to have sex while cheating..just kissing and fondling. I wouldnt do that, im not a whore who fucks anything on 2 legs.

As for my 'excuse' u r right. I know several guys who are in it for the long run. My best friend is quasi engaged and already planning his wedding(he is 19) Others are just in long term relationships, but they arent serious about it. They werent serious relationships(except the one who I didnt know I cheated on till I was told so)..I dunno what to say. Im not defending mine or any other guys actions. Its a bad thing to do.

if ya still think im a dog..well then whatever.

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Id almost be tempeted to leave him. For a while. If you still ache for him a month down the road, and hes feeling the same, get back together. If a month from now, youve been more interested in somebody else, forget it.

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i think i'm going to do that. let him sort out his feelings and in the mean time i would like to wait but i can't wait forever. there are a lot of guys that i missed out on and there is only one of stereoprincess.