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Originally posted by DigiNut P.S. To all the MEN in this thread, some of you have probably heard me say this before but don't take advice on this subject from women.

Depends on the women. But the best advice is always from one's own experience.

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Originally posted by DigiNut P.S. To all the MEN in this thread, some of you have probably heard me say this before but don't take advice on this subject from women.

I'm hurt!!! I give great advice on any subject! So there!


"Well that is all well and good, but while you're at it, how about playing mind games with the guys who treat you like sex objects and cutting the crap with the guys who don't give you any crap? You know... instead of the other way around. "


That makes sence. However, it cuts down above 10% of the guys we could play mind games on. Besides I thought it was already settled that all guys are after sex, some are just nicer about it and hide it better. So, you cant't really divide guys who treat women as sex object and guys who don't.You all treat us as sex objects in one way or anouther.

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Originally posted by MysticStardust ...That makes sence. However, it cuts down above 10% of the guys we could play mind games on.

That's true... but going about it the other way cuts out about 90% of the guys you could actually succeed in a long term relationship with. You'll understand when you're older.

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Besides I thought it was already settled that all guys are after sex, some are just nicer about it and hide it better.

Now I definitely don't remember settling on THAT... besides which, even to concede that a guy is after sex by NO means validates any speculation about him treating women as sex objects - and therefore, by no means validates your mind games. Better luck next time!

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Originally posted by MysticStardust Alrighty then. It's setteled, you treat us as sex objects and we'll treat you as our toys. Then, we'll see who'll have more fun and who will be more messed in the end.

It seems the world is composed of those who care, and those who don't....the one's who care about the pety things end up getting their wankers chopped off by the evil ice queens from the north....the one's that don't end up wondering what the hell went wrong haha

that made no sense, but that's alright!

I know there are a hell of a lot of dicks out there, but the ladies have to stop putting up these protective fronts just because they were farked with about 1.3 years ago....if a guy is nice, hey awesome...if he's a bastard, what the hell are you doing with him?

All too often its not the guys fault for being an ass, it's the girls fault for putting up with it....and vice versa

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Originally posted by Magimaster this post is quality. You should change the "don't smell desperate" with "confidence". Confidence is huuuuuuuge. Almost being cocky...

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Originally posted by DigiNut That's true... but going about it the other way cuts out about 90% of the guys you could actually succeed in a long term relationship with. You'll understand when you're older. Now I definitely don't remember settling on THAT... besides which, even to concede that a guy is after sex by NO means validates any speculation about him treating women as sex objects - and therefore, by no means validates your mind games. Better luck next time!

I'll understand when I'm older? Ok, so who made you the king of relationships?


Call me blonde, but I had some problems comprehending this part "to concede that a guy is after sex by NO means validates any speculation about him treating women as sex objects" , but I think that statement totally contradicts itself. Basically what I got from that was “if a guy is after sex, it doesn’t mean that he treats women as sex object”, in which case the sentence is contradictory to itself. So I’m kind of lost.

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Originally posted by MysticStardust I'll understand when I'm older? Ok, so who made you the king of relationships?

Self-appointed, ma'am. But seeing as how I have no subjects at the moment, I think the point is moot. That observation merely comes from a logical mind and many a time watching people make the wrong choices. But hey, don't take my word for it, see for yourself... keep playing those games of yours and see where they get you.

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Call me blonde, but ... Basically what I got from that was “if a guy is after sex, it doesn’t mean that he treats women as sex object”, in which case the sentence is contradictory to itself.

So because a guy wants to get it on, it therefore means it's the only thing he wants or cares about? Heh, you must be blonde.

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Originally posted by astroboy Well I reallise that, but almost every woman I run into can't seem to be able to decide what she finds attractive... First she wants the bad guy, then the funny guy, then the sensitive guy, then the nice guy... I see people get seriously messed up by all of this... That's why I've opted out of the mind games

Not everyone plays mind games. Many people just interpret things incorrectly because they are so set on seeing what they want to see that they bypass the signs that tell them things are heading in the other direction.

Maybe we should all skip the categories we look for and not look and be happy when something finds you?

Or in my case, curl up next to the one that makes you happy. Be blunt about things, that's what I do!

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I would agree, just because you're after sex doesn't mean you treat a woman as a sex object. The term "sex object" gets its roots from feminist philosophy and implies that the woman becomes almost an inanimate object, devoid of humanity, to be used for one's personal sexual gratification. If I wanted that I'd just use my hand... the whole point of sex is that it involves two conscious individual interracting and gaining mutual enjoyment out of it. So clearly a guy can be after sex, and not turn women into objects of any kind.

Secondly I would concur with Digi - I have never known mind games to lead to long-lasting relationships. Plenty of cases I've seen of failed relationshi after failed relationship, with the mind games starting out as innocent immature fun, then turning into a pattern of behaviour that becomes hard to break. While a lot of guys get screwed over and get their hearts broken by these girls, eventually it is the girl who suffers, because she hasn't learned to form relationships without games, and is left incapable of forming them.

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Originally posted by anuneventrade Be blunt about things, that's what I do!

Now that's good advice for everyone. Just put all your cards on the table and tell it like it is. That way there would be no mind games.

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Originally posted by anuneventrade Be blunt about things, that's what I do! [/font]

You're my type, anuneventrade...

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