Originally posted by D-res
i know people like that who say they dont want relationships because they dont want to commit to something until they know that person is the one for them.
how are you going to know who is the one if you dont bother finding someone and seeing if they're the one...
I think you misunderstand. I said that I don't find a need for prescribed dating:
a) ask girl out whome you find attractive (probably based purely on her breast size or something stupid like that)
b) pay for a shitty meal at an expensive restaurant, then go to see a shitty movie at a crowded theatre.
c) either take her home to never "date" again, or take her home to bang the shit out of her and heed to your disgustingly human instincts to sow your seed.
d) rinse yourself of this person and repeat with another. Die alone because you only took your relationship to the level at which the populace and some special little goldigger expected you to.
Ever wonder why so many guys say women are just bitches? Well, that's because they really, really are. OF COURSE not all of them - but there's so many out there that are just people looking to make themselves feel better, and I believe that we (or at least I) have evolved beyond the point where merely to potential production and sufficement of basic, internal needs and the fostering of children is an innate drive towards mating and the rituals thereof. Sex is dead.
All that can inevitably remain is love - a purity devoid of passion and one of the only things worth working towards in this world.
I did not say that I don't give women a chance - I merely said that I don't date. There is a difference, and it truly comes down to consideration of the person you have deemed worthy of your time as a human being - not just another chance at love.
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Nov-14-2004 04:18
EBoy
tranceaddict
Registered: Nov 2004
Location: Bloomington,Minnesota
4 hrs and 15 seconds!!!!!!!!!!!!!..I always eat my dessert and then run!!!!!!!
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Nov-24-2004 00:57
kelsta
Mrs GM
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Melbourne, Australia
3 yrs
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Nov-28-2004 22:21
slIpitUpnglIde
tranceaddict
Registered: May 2004
Location: Olympia, WA
quote:
Sex is dead.
All that can inevitably remain is love - a purity devoid of passion and one of the only things worth working towards in this world.
I've been coming to this same conclusion, and it's something that's been bugging me. I, personally, have never been in a "relationship" as most people would define it. It used to be because no one was interested in me, but now it's just because I'm disturbed by the idea of a relationship. What is attraction for except to get you to have sex, and what is sex for except to procreate? This makes me sad, because sex and affection are so much fun! Think how boring the world would be if all relationships were platonic. Do you think there's anything redeeming about passion?
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Nov-30-2004 12:17
kelly923
( pleasure seeker )
Registered: Jul 2004
Location: gainesville, fl
my current one- 2 1/2 yrs... and the sex is better than ever!
Dec-01-2004 18:27
Eric Siefer
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: May 2004
Location: Dallas, TX: TX TA #45
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8 months but it technically wasn't a relationship.
before that I think 4 months
Dec-06-2004 04:43
teegee
tranceaddict
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: head over heels
15 months, had to end it due to college...relationship across the country just ain't my thang.
Dec-08-2004 18:35
guster
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: May 2004
Location: Alexandria, Louisiana
My longest is the one I'm in now. Almost a year and I'm happy.
Dec-09-2004 12:34
Rick D
Resident London Hater
Registered: Sep 2003
Location: In The Chillout Room!
I've been having no strings attached sex with my left hand for about 9 years now, if that counts . It didn't even complain when when i cheated on it a couple of times, lol
3 years and some months and I am ready to take off...
It is difficult when you live with a person and things start to get fucked up, and then realise that you are used to the person so much, you don't know how to live without him/her. But I am past that (thank god!!).
Besides that, I haven't had a serious relationship because I was having too much fun to have one...
Jan-18-2005 08:54
shades_of_gray
Ninety Nine Addict.......
Registered: Jan 2005
Location: Yeovil, Somerset
erm
3 years
Jan-23-2005 17:49
Keo_Nade
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Aug 2004
Location: centralEast Coast
define "relationship"
Ill say about three hours.
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. It didn't even complain when when i cheated on it a couple of times, lol
