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Originally posted by spec If you want to break up with your girlfriend now, just do it, don't tell her about this thing, the only thing worse than having your heart broken is having it ripped out and driven over with a mack truck a few times.

He has a slight point.

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Originally posted by Mod1 oops.

Did your g/f find out?
Well then just "Let it Burn" like Usher. If she forgives you, you're one lucky mother ******.

If she still doesn't know, I would keep it to myself unless i loved her to the extreme, then i wouldn't be able to go through the guilt, so i would tell her.

If she doesn't forgive you, then oh well next time dont be such a dumbass, and learn to control your alcohol intake.

This could be a lose win situation if you like the 19 year old and she lieks you back.

agreed... i dont think im gonna tell her. tonights episode has just pointed out a rather large hole in the relationship.

its not working and my eyes are wandering. best for me to be single i think.

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Originally posted by Mod1 agreed... i dont think im gonna tell her. tonights episode has just pointed out a rather large hole in the relationship. its not working and my eyes are wandering. best for me to be single i think.

DUDE JUST ERASE THE THREAD AND GO TO BED!!!

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Originally posted by Mod1 agreed... i dont think im gonna tell her. tonights episode has just pointed out a rather large hole in the relationship. its not working and my eyes are wandering. best for me to be single i think.

make sure you shag her first, then break up with her. might aswell get the most of the situatuion

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Originally posted by Mod1 agreed... i dont think im gonna tell her. tonights episode has just pointed out a rather large hole in the relationship. its not working and my eyes are wandering. best for me to be single i think.

Sounds like a smart move, even better if you can get casual root off the 19 year old.

And also remember that after 2 months you are allowed to hook back up with ex like nothing ever happened, and with no responsibility to reveal previous mistakes. Its like an unspoken universal rule.

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Originally posted by Trancer85 This could be a lose win situation if you like the 19 year old and she lieks you back.

30 - 19 ?

i dont see a future lasting more than 6 months in that.

to be honest i dont feel any different being 30 to what i did when i was 25. age has kinda failed to have a lot of importance to me. im always told i dont look my age. people are usually shocked when i tell them.

the 19 year old is young and seems it to me. tonight was a fling. i wouldnt seriously consider gettng seriously involved to be honest.

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Originally posted by malek DUDE JUST ERASE THE THREAD AND GO TO BED!!!

if it offends you or you dont wanna read it then fck off.
im just chatting to people with a real life situation here.

FFS. get a life.

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Originally posted by Mod1 if it offends you or you dont wanna read it then fck off. im just chatting to people with a real life situation here. FFS. get a life.

it's 3am there WTF are you doing posting on a messageboard after sex?

and you're telling HIM to get a life???

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf it's 3am there WTF are you doing posting on a messageboard after sex? and you're telling HIM to get a life???

at least he had sex, which is something 90% of this board it seems havent...........ever

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Originally posted by politicsofdancin well being that you are 30 if you are telling the truth, then maybe you can talk to her in a "mature" way instead of being a jerk ass and cheating on her. thats my 2 centavos! THE END!

A bit testy, are we?

I agree, cheating isn't the way to go (who in their right mind would ever appreciate being cheated on) but for the sake of telling her or not, I say not to.

If you know that the relationship is over and that there is no hope for the two of you, then just end it. Telling her that you cheated is only going to cause more frustration and possibly emotional scares for her. It's better off that she doesn't know. You need to end it and LEAVE IT THAT WAY. Start a relationship with this 19 year old if you prefer but learn from your mistakes, if you can, and respect the fact that you have a girlfriend before you go pulling the snake out it's cage.

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf it's 3am there WTF are you doing posting on a messageboard after sex? and you're telling HIM to get a life???

He's 30, who just nailed a 19yo, thats life enough for me.

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