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| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
i'll try to answer that question
ok well, i need to be mentally stimulated before sex...as do about 90% of the female population. it's just how we are.
if some hot male model knocked on my door, and we had great sex and he was well hung too, i wouldn't orgasm...because i don't know him at all. actually, now that i think of it, that's kind of kinky...maybe i would
no but seriously, it's because we need lots of mental stimulation and it's just way better for us when it's with someone that we are so passionate about and in love with we like that comfort too...i don't know about you guys, but when you first get naked and have sex for the first time, it's stressful...my mind is too busy wondering stuff to be able to concentrate on an orgasm. that happens to me now, too. sometimes i concentrate so hard on cuming during oral, that i can't....and then i throw a hissy fit followed by feelings of frustration and rage to the point where i want to beat my boyfriend's ass and blame him. then i fall asleep pouting. either that, or my boyfriend practically rapes into giving it a second chance. hahaha i love when he does that. |
Pouting when you don't have an orgasm. That's terrible. I had a friend who's girlfriend claimed it had never happened to her before. She got all pouty and I think it really hurt his confidence. That's not what you girls want to accomplish.
A comedian made a good point. If a guy can't get hard or cums too fast, it's the guys fault.
If a girl doesn't cum, it's the guys fault.
Maybe it's the girls fault some of these times, but that's never admitted.
I know what you mean about the intimicy thing though. I think that was the problem with the girl I tried to be "friends with benefits" with. She liked me too much. It was great for her, because she was comfortable and an easy O (No one ever believes me, but she could have 5+ orgasms in like 10 minutes). Not claiming it is me either, she's a freak of nature. But I know that she felt a connection to me that helped her get off easier. That really bothered me when it was just sex though. It made me feel as though I was using her and she was hanging on and hoping I would change my mind. I couldn't do it anymore.
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not to mention, we have the most amazing compatible sexual chemistry. it’s just sometimes I have too much on my mind before we have sex, and I can’t seem to fully relax, and I’m distracted. and then sometimes it's because i'm concentrating too hard on the orgasm itself...so hard that i can't even have one...it's weird. whenever we have wine though or i'm a little tipsy...never fails
