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That's not cool at all.
Women aren't the only ones to do this. I am willing to go splits on stuff, and have it completely fair, but one guy I dated, I ended up paying for everything. That totally sucked because I was becoming super poor, and he was enjoying the benefits of it.
I think relationships need to be even, because once they aren't, one or the other is going to become resentful, and therefore cause issues in the relationship.
If you think someone is using you, for any reason or purpose, ditch them. You do not deserve to be leeched off of. If they cannot appreciate you for who you are, without the perks, then you are in a meaningless relationship, and you will never be happy.
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