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man your girlfriend sounds really boring, i suggest going for another girl, shes not worth the time and effort, even if shes hot. i remember i try to hook up with a hot girl and we had lot of things common, we flirted, stuff like that, but when it came down to it, she had a Crappy Personality. Might be the case with your girl wizniz. if more than anything she could be
A:not comfortable with you
B:not into you
C:inexperienced
D:she thinks your ugly
E:Boring
F:NOT CONFIDENT(like confident in herself with you)
G:Clueless as what to do now that she is with you
H:trying to figure out where the relationship is going to go
I:Testing you how much your willing to try to make things work[sacrifice basically] (This is fucking Frustrating, becuase sometimes women like to play games)
J:Got influence from her friends that you not worth it(especially when a women has second thoughts about you, her friends will could easily manipulate her, unless she really doesnt give a shit about what her friends think)
K:Too self-involved (does she have a job, extracirrucular activities, and school altogether, then she aint gonna have time for you, and when she does, shes gonna act a little wierd around you)
but also try some of the good stuff:
1.Talk, and talk lots (make sure its interesting though, otherwise she will forget what you say and stop listening)
2.Have Fun(Theme parks, arcades, walk in the parks, movies, take her to interesting places she might have never been before, a restuarant, find out what she likes, and try to have something in commmon, this makes a better connection between two people)
3.Be patient(if your goal is to make a long term relationship, be patient, as you will go through some hectic moments)
4.Make her Feel special(sometimes a girl will think you are not into her, and that may be becuase you don't show enough interest in her, and this can actually hurt a relationship)
5.Take it slow(going to fast will freak her out. Ever hear when a girl says i love you to a guy and the guy breaks up with her becuase he freaked out? Girls are the same way)
6.be flirtatious(GIRLS LOVE ATTENTION, AND THEY CAN NEVER GET ENOUGH OF IT. thats why some girls give guys the silent treatment, so the guy will, and i mean WILL, focus on her.)
7.Be Sweet (and when i mean sweet, i mean listen to her, look into her eyes when she is speaking, ACTUALLY pay attention to her, cause if you don't, she will ask you "OK, what did i just say?",)
8.Be spontaneous (because girls tend to be the most vunerable when off guard. Like give her a kiss on the cheek out of nowhere, still act like a boyfriend to her around HER friends, this can make her more proud to have you, and she'll brag to her friends, and she will appreciate you more, therefore more good things to happen.)
9.and lastly, don't take the relationship so damn seriously all the time.(if anything, a girl hates it when a guy is too serious all the time, be fun, show that your not boring.
And one more tip, MAKE HER THINK THAT YOU DONT NEED HER (girls will think your pathetic if you cant live without them. but this does not apply to married and/or engaged couples, or long term couples. (I say this becuase those relationships are really deep and things turn out different). if you show that you dont need her, she will more than likely freak out, and hold on to you, but be careful, sometimes this backfires and she becomes a jealous, insecure bitch!(Sorry Girls!)
i know how you feel wizniz, i went through the same shit your going through right now, hot girl, yet the relationship is stale, and what did I learn? I COULD HAVE HAD A BETTER GIRLFRIEND THAN HER!
but then again, you gotta have some faith and make it work too, if your willing to make it work that is. But remember DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME ON SOMEONE THAT WON'T WASTE THEIR TIME ON YOU!
If thats the case that is.
just rememeber what i said
(Damn What a long Post!)
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