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| quote: | Originally posted by geroin
i wasnt really approaching her, i would see her all the time dancing right in front of me so i thought what the hell why not talk to her, then she brushes me off 30min later im talking to my friend and shes beside me again looking staright at me and giving me smiles.
i've been seeing her for quite a few times and i usually dont pick up girls at clubs, especially at guv, jus thought shes cute so decided to talk
plus i see nothing wrong in talking to someone at a club if you find him/her attractive and there is no point in being rude even if the person is not "hot"..
Plus who cares if a person is not from TA, even if he is what kind of security does that give you, i dont really get it |
I understand what you are saying, and it doens't sound like you mean any harm at all. Just from a girl's perspective though...well mine...I have no idea what's goin on in this girls head. I have met some awesome people at the guv by striking up random conversations with people...some TAs, others not. But there are other times where I don't know what it is, it's not that I feel threatened by the guy or something...but I just don't feel comfortable talking to them. I'm not intentionally TRYING to be rude. I just don't want to really talk to them. And by brushing off I don't mean I'm telling the dude to get away from me. If they say hi, I reply with a hello...but try to end it there...simply going on with my dancing.
I don't know if this helps at all. I don't think you're wrong in what you did at all. I don't think there's anything wrong with meeting friendly ppl at the guvernment either. In fact, it's one of the things I say I like most about the EDM scene...you always leave with 10 new friends.
I guess just try not to take it personally. I don't believe I've had the pleasure of meeting you, but I'm sure you're a wonderful dude to chat with 
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