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Originally posted by 5hiftn6ears i think you have a secret crush on him

ive always been a big sucker for shirtless americans

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy ive always been a big sucker for shirtless americans

I'm putting my shirt on.

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Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty i like every single of your answers on this topic here man. its not about violence, or machoism or this or that, just the right thing to do. if i walk with my girl, and somebody, anybody calls her a whore he's getting knocked the fuck out and thats the end of it. and it doesnt matter whats gonna happen to me later on, i never called any of my girls a whore and sure as fucking hell some fucko at the guv aint gonna do it. setlle it with words? where do you live guys ? you know what would happen : him - youre a whore you - hey buddy thats not nice, appologize to her next thing that would happen is a) hes knocking you out or b) hes calling you a little bitch and then knocking you out. but im not saying you did the wrong thing man. in your state of mind you prolly did what was best, but i can bet anything that if you were sober you would punch him in the mouth, right? somebody said "smart girls go for smart guys". are you trying to say im stupid cause i would do anything for my girl? to make her feel like she's worth everything and not like she's some stupid slut that anybody can call a whore? if so, i'll always go for the dumb girls. at least they will appreciate how much i appreciate them.

sorry, but hell no

i'm fully capable of standing up for myself when someone makes fun of me. if i choose to do nothing, thats not a sign that i need you to do it for me. my battle, let me fight it.

this is why normal girls don't date meatheads. everything always becomes an issue of "their" honour

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Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty somebody said "smart girls go for smart guys". are you trying to say im stupid cause i would do anything for my girl? to make her feel like she's worth everything and not like she's some stupid slut that anybody can call a whore?

no. I didn't say that you are stupid for wanting to protect your girl or making her feel worthwhile.

I think that in a situation like that, every girl (dumb or smart, doesn't really have anything to do with intelligence) would WANT her boyfriend to knock the shit out of the asshole because in some way it makes her feel loved or special, BUT she has to understand that:

1) she is at a club (the guvernment is a good example here) where there are plenty of assholes of all ages and types. ass-pinching (or cheek-pinching in this case ), and name calling SHOULD be expected by her. I'm not saying it's right, but it happens. Being called a whore by a low-life loser does not necessarily make her a whore and if she understands that, it shouldn't bother her or make her feel disrespected.

2) making a big scene at the club and probably getting kicked out because of it is not a fun way to spend nye; this is assuming that the fight does not go as far as breaking a nose, being charged for assult and spending the night at the police station.

3) if she cared about, or "appreciated" as you say, her boyfriend she wouldn't want him to potentially get hurt for trying to defend her when she really didn't NEED to be defended (i.e. she was not in physical danger).

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if so, i'll always go for the dumb girls. at least they will appreciate how much i appreciate them.

always going for the dumb girls is your really your choice; I can't argue with that.

you are right that it's not about being macho. walking away in a situation like that does NOT mean that you don't appreciate your girlfriend. it's simply the smart/more classier way of handling the situation. Now if the loser had grabbed your girlfriend and stuck his tongue down her throat, then we would be dealing with something else!

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Originally posted by spitty sorry, but hell no i'm fully capable of standing up for myself when someone makes fun of me. if i choose to do nothing, thats not a sign that i need you to do it for me. my battle, let me fight it. this is why normal girls don't date meatheads. everything always becomes an issue of "their" honour

See, and you probably think the guy was calling you a whore (in this hypothetical situation).

Let me tell you something, that when a guy has a girl with him, and another guy talks shit to the girl, it's 95% of the time something he is doing to spite the dude, not to talk shit to the girl.

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Originally posted by DigitalMP See, and you probably think the guy was calling you a whore (in this hypothetical situation). Let me tell you something, that when a guy has a girl with him, and another guy talks shit to the girl, it's 95% of the time something he is doing to spite the dude, not to talk shit to the girl.

then you have a complex. until he says something to YOU, this is not YOUR fight. most guys who call a girl a whore is because she doesn't reciprocate whatever interest he has shown in her, and his wounded ego is making him stike out. i prolly can speak on this a little better then you can, BEING a girl.

however if your girlfriend wants help, or is the type that expects you to jump in, then good. you have someone suited for you.

in my case, the only thing my bf should be doing is coming up to ME and asking ME if i'm ok, and if i want help. if i say no, then he better back off, cuz it isn't about him, and he doesn't need to make this about him. i hate macho jealous roid-rage boyfriends..now EX-boyfriends

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Originally posted by ChocolateTrance no. I didn't say that you are stupid for wanting to protect your girl or making her feel worthwhile. I think that in a situation like that, every girl (dumb or smart, doesn't really have anything to do with intelligence) would WANT her boyfriend to knock the shit out of the asshole because in some way it makes her feel loved or special, BUT she has to understand that: 1) she is at a club (the guvernment is a good example here) where there are plenty of assholes of all ages and types. ass-pinching (or cheek-pinching in this case ), and name calling SHOULD be expected by her. I'm not saying it's right, but it happens. Being called a whore by a low-life loser does not necessarily make her a whore and if she understands that, it shouldn't bother her or make her feel disrespected. 2) making a big scene at the club and probably getting kicked out because of it is not a fun way to spend nye; this is assuming that the fight does not go as far as breaking a nose, being charged for assult and spending the night at the police station. 3) if she cared about, or "appreciated" as you say, her boyfriend she wouldn't want him to potentially get hurt for trying to defend her when she really didn't NEED to be defended (i.e. she was not in physical danger). always going for the dumb girls is your really your choice; I can't argue with that. you are right that it's not about being macho. walking away in a situation like that does NOT mean that you don't appreciate your girlfriend. it's simply the smart/more classier way of handling the situation. Now if the loser had grabbed your girlfriend and stuck his tongue down her throat, then we would be dealing with something else!

i know what are you talking about but you have to understand, it a case like that it doesnt matter whats gonna happen later. whore is second only to a c unt when somebody wanna insult a woman. i understand you would rather have your bf walk away but that would bring more insults, grabbing your ass and eventually fight. trust me on this. its maybe more civilised way, but somebody call my girl a whore, honestly, fuck civilised. i hope you understand me

and this last sentence, do you really think thats worse then calling girl a whore ?

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this is why normal girls don't date meatheads. everything always becomes an issue of "their" honour

lol. so we're meatheads cause we dont wanna let shit like that pass? trying to protect her honour?

you CANNOT protect yourself in situations like that. lets say he wasnt satisfied with that, he grabbed yer ass and when you slapped him he punched you in the face (hey, it can happen) before bouncers get there. can you protect yoursef against that??

it can happen

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Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty you CANNOT protect yourself in situations like that. lets say he wasnt satisfied with that, he grabbed yer ass and when you slapped him he punched you in the face (hey, it can happen) before bouncers get there. can you protect yoursef against that?? it can happen

yeah that can happen. what would much more likely happen, is i can say fuck off. he do nothing. no one fights, and i don't bitch you out for gettin us kicked outta the club.

if the situation was obviously outta control, or if i asked for your help, then yes, but its not a matter of him disrespecting me, but you respecting me.

but again, this is really a personal taste. some girls like that shiny knight thing (however 1950s it is) but me, i'd rather fight my own battles. i guess you all need to discuss this with your sig. other beforehand.

just an interesting point. they assign more women cops to domestic dispute calls. maybe the women cops can't fight as well as the male cops, but they diffuse the situation a lot faster then males.

plus, i'd rather not pick your teeth off the ground if he kicks YOUR ass

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Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty lol. so we're meatheads cause we dont wanna let shit like that pass? trying to protect her honour? you CANNOT protect yourself in situations like that. lets say he wasnt satisfied with that, he grabbed yer ass and when you slapped him he punched you in the face (hey, it can happen) before bouncers get there. can you protect yoursef against that?? it can happen

That's a huge what if and totally besides the point anyways.

Security is there for a reason and I think if ANY guy swung at a girl in a club there would be 15 other guys on him before he could do anything anyways.

Where does this "protect her honour" bullshit come in? I'm wondering what you think we do when all you macho guys aren't around the rest of time to protect it for us? Hitting another guy in the name of your girlfriend's "honour" makes you just as much of a retard as him.

Spitty said it already. The only thing we want is for you to make sure that WE are ok. Forget about the other guy. We can take care of ourselves.

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Originally posted by Irishaddict That's a huge what if and totally besides the point anyways. Security is there for a reason and I think if ANY guy swung at a girl in a club there would be 15 other guys on him before he could do anything anyways. Where does this "protect her honour" bullshit come in? I'm wondering what you think we do when all you macho guys aren't around the rest of time to protect it for us? Hitting another guy in the name of your girlfriend's "honour" makes you just as much of a retard as him. Spitty said it already. The only thing we want is for you to make sure that WE are ok. Forget about the other guy. We can take care of ourselves.

amen my sister from another mister.

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Originally posted by Irishaddict I'm wondering what you think we do when all you macho guys aren't around the rest of time ?

...sitting around in bra and panties having tickle fights?

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