palivar you forgot the 2nd part but i think i've seen it before

im actually the last d00d in the galaxy to ask for advice on girls but from most of my friends and from all the places i've read they say chix need to be treated like shit

so orbax is right, except that it seems like they need to be treated badly even after 25

If you can walk around with a platter full of hot dogs, and your penis in a bun as one of them, you have broken your shyness

DUDE, the secret is that girls are just as horny as guys, they just choose to mask it. They enjoy getting attention and being talked to, and you gotta keep that mentality and have faith.

I big thing is being self-conscious, worrying about what other people will think, rejection, etc. But after you've done it a couple of times, you realize its not a big deal.

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at first i used to think women were all "good"...then i realized they could be horny as hell too...but now im beginning to question that...they handle their need for sex differently than men do, thats for sure...of the following is true:

1: they need sex, but not as much as men do
2: they need sex as much as men do, but they dont WANT it as much
3: they dont need sex as much as men do, but they DO want it as much (i doubt this)
4: they need AND want sex as much as men do

the question is, which one of the above is true.

a couple people have suggested the, get-drunk-and-mack-her-up, method. i'm a really shy guy. but i'll talk to anyone when i'm drunk... like, REALLY drunk. but sometimes, its sucky cause you realize the next morning that you said something really dumb the previous night...

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i dont think shyness can be overcome...
just deal with it...

shyness starts with pysical insecurity... conquer that and then you'll find that syness slips away... and by conquer i mean make the neccessary adjustments like if you're fat then LOSE THE WEIGHT TUBBY... food shouldn't be a comfort but a neccessity....

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Originally posted by infinity HiGH OMG, so true...I'm still kicking myself for passing up an oppurtunity to chatting up a cutie on the bus. We made eye contact and she gave a light smirk...but what did I do?!?!? UGH, if I only had another chance...

dont kick urself in the ass, but next time the opportunity presents itlself, talk to the girl, no matter what...u got eye contact and a smile, TALK TO HER...who cares if it ends up nowhere...no matter, u tried, hence, more confidence to try next time yeahh!!!!!!!

my self confidence is at at 8/10 right now...but i still get girls to notice and talk to ME

>JM<
ps. just wait till my self confidence is 11/10. i glow...i P*I*M*P*
hehe..joking

Theres no time to get shy...Holy shit you could get run over by a bus tommorow...Only live once, make the most of it mate

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HA HA HA HA HA HA HA !!!!!!!

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Originally posted by Paulinski Ok here it goes. I'm a nice guy but incredibly shy. If a see a cute girl somwhere party etc I want to talk to her but I'm shy and do nothing. Now if a drop a little something something (wink wink) or get drunk i'm a totally different person talkative outgoing. When I sober up its back to normal. Is there any hope?? Paulinski TRANCE crank it up turn off the lights close your eyes and let the music take you on the journey.

Like Swamper said, you have to take the risks. Plus, you got to work on yourself first, like confidence and being less self-conscious... Just talk to girls like you're NOT trying to impresss them. Just don't take yourself so seriously or else you'll just clam up at the moment of truth. LOL And you don't have to talk to cute girls.. talk to anywhere girl. that's right talking = practice..

I was shy too before but not for long as I kept talking and making the effort to be less shy.. eVentually, it just becomes spontaneous. Eventually, you do it instinctively and know what kind of a communicator you are around the opposite sex.

Be a teaser, be playful and a flurt but funny and lighthearted. That's me.