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Originally posted by get nyce there are 2 guys at the gym who always stares at me, not sure if they are checking me out or trying to make eye contact to see if im interested, it just freaks me out that i see them every day in the gym and never care to acknowledge them with a head nod or a whats up because frankly when im working out, it's just me and my music and i don't really want to spend any time flirting with girls or being a social butterfly...it's not that type of place for me i guess even more freaky when they try to 'jump in' for a few sets or work out right next to me when there are like 3 other empty benches to work on. not my thing

hahaha ewww

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by Slylee hahaha ewww

one dudes got a unibrow and the other has thick ass glasses and wears spandex when he shouldn't...

totally gross...

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Originally posted by get nyce one dudes got a unibrow and the other has thick ass glasses and wears spandex when he shouldn't... totally gross...

evolution is a bitch...

i've never paid attention to this? how self-absorbed can you actually be to think another man is checking you out? Feels a bit insecure, but yeah seems like an awkward disposition.

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Originally posted by get nyce there are 2 guys at the gym who always stares at me, not sure if they are checking me out or trying to make eye contact to see if im interested, it just freaks me out that i see them every day in the gym and never care to acknowledge them with a head nod or a whats up because frankly when im working out, it's just me and my music and i don't really want to spend any time flirting with girls or being a social butterfly...it's not that type of place for me i guess even more freaky when they try to 'jump in' for a few sets or work out right next to me when there are like 3 other empty benches to work on. not my thing

at least they don't ask to "spot you" on the bench or something.

even then, however, if it was some random dude that you didn't know, and didn't know his sexuality, would that bother you?

what do you(and by you, i mean c0r) find more **awkward** or uncomortable....someone approaching you and you know they are gay, or someone approaching you and you don't know if they are or not?

or does it even matter?

honestly, i don't care....as long as there isn't any touching. any hands on my thighs better be of the female sex.

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Originally posted by tubularbills at least they don't ask to "spot you" on the bench or something. even then, however, if it was some random dude that you didn't know, and didn't know his sexuality, would that bother you? what do you(and by you, i mean c0r) find more **awkward** or uncomortable....someone approaching you and you know they are gay, or someone approaching you and you don't know if they are or not? or does it even matter? honestly, i don't care....as long as there isn't any touching. any hands on my thighs better be of the female sex.

wow you must have been raised in oklahoma...by your words any guy approaching you might be gay...oh noes. Lol gay guys are usually more respectful than straight guys when it comes to taking no for an answer.Aslo Gay men make the best wingmen...you want to get some top shelf poon?Go out for a night on the town with some mangirls...seriously they will do all the work for you.

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Originally posted by tubularbills what do you(and by you, i mean c0r) find more **awkward** or uncomortable....someone approaching you and you know they are gay, or someone approaching you and you don't know if they are or not? or does it even matter? honestly, i don't care....as long as there isn't any touching. any hands on my thighs better be of the female sex.

It doesnt usually matter. I don't mind friendly chat, and if they buy me a drink, all the fucking live long day. Free booze.

If they start crossing the straight man boundary like touching then I'll let them know.

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak wow you must have been raised in oklahoma...by your words any guy approaching you might be gay...oh noes. Lol gay guys are usually more respectful than straight guys when it comes to taking no for an answer.Aslo Gay men make the best wingmen...you want to get some top shelf poon?Go out for a night on the town with some mangirls...seriously they will do all the work for you.

True that. I've been out with a couple of gay friends before and they do manage to easily be-friend hot women, who can instantly tell they're not out to fuck them for all their worth.

This, in turn, makes them feel more comfortable in gaymen company, then you can make your move.

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak wow you must have been raised in oklahoma...by your words any guy approaching you might be gay...oh noes. Lol gay guys are usually more respectful than straight guys when it comes to taking no for an answer.Aslo Gay men make the best wingmen...you want to get some top shelf poon?Go out for a night on the town with some mangirls...seriously they will do all the work for you.

actually, i grew up in chicago

i was just wondering what people felt about that "unknown" factor or whatever. i mean, do you absolutely have to know someones sexual preference ? or does it not matter?

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Originally posted by tubularbills actually, i grew up in chicago i was just wondering what people felt about that "unknown" factor or whatever. i mean, do you absolutely have to know someones sexual preference ? or does it not matter?

No it shouldn't matter if your comfortable with your own.

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Originally posted by DJ_Eternal No it shouldn't matter if your comfortable with your own.

true story.

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Originally posted by tubularbills actually, i grew up in chicago i was just wondering what people felt about that "unknown" factor or whatever. i mean, do you absolutely have to know someones sexual preference ? or does it not matter?

if you can't tell if a guy is being friendly or gay you need to go on ebay and order gaydar.