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PatMcGroin
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Registered: Sep 2001
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| quote: | Originally posted by Eugene
so what makes you think that if you're MARRIED and then have sex, something may not come between you then?
I'm sorry, I'm just being realistic here...  |
yes something COULD happen, but i'm not about to just up and marry the first person i like, and nor will she, we'll be together for many years and see how it goes....if then we decide on it, then we'll get married....and if we ever did get married i don't think we'll split up, i think if ever i'll get married then it'll stay that way...i'm not the divorce sort of person, yeah it may still happen, anything is possible, but i'm not about to marry whoever
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 Apr-20-2002 23:59 
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AnotherWay83
The B00b Maintenance Guy™
Registered: Aug 2000
Location: land of d(-_-)b
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| quote: | Originally posted by PatMcGroin
its hard, its really hard, but i have will power and i'm managing....i'm 19 and i'm still a virgin, i've had plenty of girlfriends and my current one is 20, also a virgin, and we have to stop ourselves from having sex each time....we know what we're doing, but 16 year olds don't and thats why they are imature, hence why i can still call them "kids"
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well its ur life but i think u're implying that refraining from having sex==maturity, which is just not true, IMHO...i dont think being a virgin is anything great or special anymore...what about all those who are (so-to-speak) involuntarily celibate?
all the same, i dont think its a great idea for really young ppl. to have sex, but then, as eugene said, they're just like young adults, sum of them mature enuff, sum not
btw, on a related note, i found sumthing really sad, weird and sumthing that made me think quite alot....its quite alot of reading, its the story of this 40 year old virgin(!!) in his own words...stumbled upon it by accident...
http://www.kuro5hin.org/story/2002/4/11/17120/2629
peace
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Apr-21-2002 03:24 
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PatMcGroin
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the only reason i am refraining from having sex is because i want to wait to give my virginity to that special person, that is all
i am by no means trying to imply anything about maturity....a person can be getting laid left and right and be any age and be mature as hell, and another person can be exactly the same and act like the youngest kid....
i think of myself as mature, hence the ability to refrain from having sex, even though my body is craving it, but thats not the only reason i think i am mature, and the same goes for my g/f i think anyway, although i can't speak for her
and being a virgin is still special to me, and if i stay with my g/f now and we end up getting married sometime down the road, she'll be very happy that i saved myself for her, and the same way
its not for everyone, by no means is it, and i do not look down on people for having sex, so don't get me wrong, this is jsut the right thing to do for myself
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