25-30 is a big transitional age for women moreso than men. The biological urge to settle down is a pretty big change.

Just keep moving, and your brain and heart will follow your feet. good luck though buddy...

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Originally posted by djsphere why are relationships so damn complicated?

Because we make them.

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Originally posted by teegee sometimes, i sit on my hand until its numb and then masturbate...i call that a stranger.

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Originally posted by justin I talked to her last night for about five hours. she told me she will be there for me when I prove to be more goal oriented, less reliant on her, and stay out of trouble. She says she's really wants to be in a relationship with me but that we have to get along better than how we were before. According to her there is no reason for me to worry if she is seeing other guys because she isn't even thinking about it. She said we should start hanging out again too... Amen

Move on, don't go back, and be responsible for yourself.

i was in the same spot..and after it was over, i still wanted to keep as friends which is nearly impossible, especially with her. but yeah iwent through all the bs wondering wtf is up with her and etc..
best way is to stop talking...if you talk to her again, you may fuck it all up and it can turn into this vicious circle of going back to her. and yes, if you find someone else youll forget about this ex in no time..thing is women have an easier time at slutting around with people after breakups than guys, so she may already have someone else..use that to forget about her even more.

solution...

1. book a flight to hong kong.

2. go find any bar in kowloon bay area.

3. hook up with 6 chicks at once (yes it does happen..... and stupidly easily.... though it might cost you 100 bucks)

4. fly back to US and get tested for all the STD's you probably picked up

5. take solace in the fact that you just banged 6 chicks at once....

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN I have 3 hobbies: gaming, DJing & correcting maladjusted fools on the internet.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN Yeah, I’d like to know what horrible, scarring incident in your childhood turned you into such an ignorant, intellectual-hating philistine?

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Originally posted by djsphere why are relationships so damn complicated?

because if they were so easy they wouldn't be worth having.

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Originally posted by Spacey Orange because if they were so easy they wouldn't be worth having.

So true.....

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Originally posted by jennypie You don't know that she's off with other dudes. Maybe she's just confused or feeling smothered, or like she said, just needs time/space. Sometimes it CAN be as simple as that...I know, because I've been through it. The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy with other things, and try not to think the worst. Things like this are a true test of the relationship. I know it made mine stronger, and really made me realize and appreciate what TRUE, REAL love is all about. You may find that this is the best thing that ever happened to your relationship.

this is the most serious post from jennypie ive ever seen!

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Originally posted by devnull this is the most serious post from jennypie ive ever seen!

Hahaha...I've had plenty of serious posts!

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Originally posted by jennypie Hahaha...I've had plenty of serious posts!

lol, poo shivers

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Originally posted by tubularbills lol, poo shivers