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Re: would you?
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now, we've been talking for a week, and I've gone out with her twice... |
Ok, lets try and look at this realistically. You've known her for a week. You've 'gone out' twice. So, some points to consider:
- Do you, as the person you are now, or the person you plan on becoming real quick, have an interest in children?
- How about raising this little bundle of joy?
- And, how about raising a child that isn't yours? (psycho ex could potentially be the least of your worries).
- How about being 18, and hopefully not of the teenage mindset that you really do know better than everyone else. I'm not giving you shit - When I was 18, I thought I knew it all. Dirty little prick, I was.
- Does this lovely lady have a job in any way, or will you be contributing substantially (!!!) to a kid? (Not your kid, by the way, and well, they're expensive, you know) Hope you didn't want to go to college and actually enjoy yourself. You'll be working flat out trying to make ends meet. Study? Ha! Good luck.
Of course, I tend to be pessimistic.
And with good reason, I think. Children are nasty little creatures.
If you go for this, be SOOOO careful man.
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