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| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_M
Even so, what difference does it make whether people use personal goals or societal compulsions to abstain from doing things ? There are many people who cannot exercise the type of abstinence that requires self control even if it is driven by social compulsions.
How hard is it for a chain smoker to quit ? Or for a meth addict to give up his drug ? They must choose intentional abstinence, if they want to live a healthy life (or even stay alive). There are many instances like this where self control does not have anything to do with the society. It's not really as rare as you think. |
Something that is socially-inspired and influenced can be controlled by society as well. Of course there are no truly isolated frames of thought out there - everything is an amalgam of self and society, but if social pressures were what lead to an addiction or a need to find oneself in the first place, and can also be the path and the influence by which the means or solution are met, where does that truly place the individual?
I am saying that self-control, in an overwhelming majority of cases, is an illusion; a prescription of society. I am not saying this is a bad thing, as I think that would be a very, very limited consideration, I am just saying that there is far more at play than merely setting one's mind to do something. I think that, through realization of this, it's possible to gain a very significant degree of empathy for fellow people, animals and maybe all living things. I know this is really idealistic viewpoint, quite contrary to my typical cynicism, but I also hold that every individual is weak. Everyone.
| quote: | | Fundamentally, monks really don't care about social structures. Their goals are neither ego based nor driven by society (unlike ours). They may form their own groups for praying or chanting. In the end however, they meditate alone for a purely personal goal of enlightenment. You can argue that the person is striving for personal greatness or respect in a society, but I don't think an enlightened person is searching for this type of recognition. |
Ideally, yes. How could you ever truly tell what latent social control has a grasp of people though? My point is that individualism and society are quite inextricable - that one has a definite hold over the other at all times. Perhaps there is a threshold one can pass, and this realization is all that we know of enlightenment, but true oneness with everything has exclusions? I guess I do not understand this. I'll meditate on it for a while. 
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