 |
|
|
|
 |
|
 |
 |
RandomGirl
Supreme tranceaddict

Registered: Jul 2003
Location:
|
|
|
Don't do the keylogger thing.
My ex did that to me, and it was one of the many factors into the reason why I dumped his stupid ass.
He was cheating on me, and because he knew HE couldn't be trusted, he thought I was doing the same thing. So when I asked him to fix something on my comp, he put the logger on it, and had the scripts saving to a folder he could get access to when he was online. He found a lot of nothing, other than my conversations with my girlfriends about how "weird" he was acting, and that I was wondering if something was going on.
He then confessed to me one night when we were fighting. I was so infuriated (but I also felt vindicated at the same time because he "caught" me doing nothing but being hurt by his dumb shit).
If the trust is starting to dissipate, you need to communicate with her. Doing something yourself that is shady, and would result in her not trusting you in return is only going to exacerbate the problem.
You need to sit down and tell her how you have been feeling, and what has been happening to make you feel that way. Tell her you are feeling like you can't trust her because of the shady behaviour, and that you are concerned about your relationship. If she cares at all, she will either be honest and admit she is doing something, and if she isn't doing something, she will reassure your paranoid ass that nothing is wrong.
|
|
Jan-04-2008 19:46
|
|
|
 |
All times are GMT. The time now is 11:23.
Forum Rules:
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not edit your posts
|
HTML code is ON
vB code is ON
[IMG] code is ON
|
|
|
|
|
|
Contact Us - return to tranceaddict
Powered by: Trance Music & vBulletin Forums
Copyright ©2000-2026, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Privacy Statement / DMCA
|