Originally posted by Ania_xox
I totally think it's HIS fault if he can't get the hint.
Why should she be forced to do something totally bitchy and cold (like telling him to fuck off out of her life) just because HE takes her too seriously?
If her being nice to him and occasionally having a conversation with him gives HIM the idea that they are going to have a relationship, then that's HIS emotional diarrhea.
I don't know the girl so I may be wrong about what HER possible intentions are... but on the whole, this is how I see it.
Just tell him that she doesn't like him and she doesn't want to be called by him anymore. He might be broken up about it, but he probably won't kill himself. Most people don't.
Feb-06-2008 21:08
Halcyon+On+On
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6 months is pretty excessive.
But some females are very, very strange. Like not talking to you for weeks on end and suddenly your best friend once more. Yeah. Some of them are a bit broken.
//How old is your friend?
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Feb-06-2008 21:12
Ania_xox
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quote:
Originally posted by Vernon_H
just the tip. just the tip.
pourquoi juste le tip?
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quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
oh well, different strokes different vaginas
Some dance to remember ~ Some dance to forget
Feb-06-2008 21:18
Halcyon+On+On
Liebchen
Registered: Sep 2004
Location: midcoast
*points to the door*
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Feb-06-2008 21:26
Ania_xox
let me drive
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Location: on the midnight street
*points back*
(every action force has an equal or opposite reaction force )
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quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
oh well, different strokes different vaginas
Some dance to remember ~ Some dance to forget
Feb-06-2008 21:35
donnybrasco
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Registered: Nov 2004
Location: L.A.
As long as she's going to be disingenuous with the guy, she might as well lie PRODUCTIVELY and just tell him that's she's seeing someone else now, and can no longer talk to him.
End of problem.
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Feb-06-2008 21:39
Halcyon+On+On
Liebchen
Registered: Sep 2004
Location: midcoast
quote:
Originally posted by Ania_xox
*points back*
(every action force has an equal or opposite reaction force )
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Feb-06-2008 22:06
ballmouse
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Registered: Nov 2006
Location: USA
Same kind of thing happened to me this year. I couldn't take it anymore and I just told the guy to stop talking to me.
Feb-06-2008 22:15
hectorc
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Registered: Feb 2008
Location: Chicago IL
She needs to just tell him she's not interested. If he continues then he has issues of dependancy. It is then his problem, and not hers. She has the right to b8tch him out because she has expressed her feeling about him. Not saying anything is also an enabler.
Feb-06-2008 22:18
pkcRAISTLIN
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Registered: Jul 2002
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quote:
Originally posted by Ania_xox
I totally think it's HIS fault if he can't get the hint.
Why should she be forced to do something totally bitchy and cold (like telling him to fuck off out of her life) just because HE takes her too seriously?
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