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Originally posted by yankeeBaby

Hun you should have made this a poll thread you would def get your answer thru the poll results alot of people might not feel confortable answering about their personal lives,but wont hesitate to pick an option within the poll becuase they would know that their identity would not be revealed.

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Originally posted by UmmiE Hun you should have made this a poll thread you would def get your answer thru the poll results alot of people might not feel confortable answering about their personal lives,but wont hesitate to pick an option within the poll becuase they would know that their identity would not be revealed.

hmmm can I still do that? What should the options be?



btw I should write a disclaimer.....People should be able to write their opinions on the general public without feeling like they are applying it to their personal lives.

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Originally posted by rabbitjoker Humans also have intelligence, intellect and free will (humans are not driven by instinct with every move [as animals are]). Monogamy is a choice. If you care about your partner strongly enough you will live-by and respect that choice.

you and margs and your cutie-patootie relationship that everyone longs for. the love you two have love that RADIATES off of the both of you when you are around each other

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Originally posted by yankeeBaby hmmm can I still do that? What should the options be? btw I should write a disclaimer.....People should be able to write their opinions on the general public without feeling like they are applying it to their personal lives.

make a new one trust me:-

Have you ever cheated ?

a) Yes
b) NO
c) Made out(kisses,oral,but not actual intercoruse )
e) When I get drunk i dont remmeber what happens during that tiem doesnt count.

Something along those lines......make it fun....you know it

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Originally posted by Capo di tutti You are half a nun. Cheating is easier for woman, a 300 pound amputee can get banged on any bar night, some girls think they are the apple of so many guys's eye thur-sun nights...but thats not the case. In highschool i would date a few girls at once, but i didn't commit to any so i don't think thats cheating. I agree with Dr.Phil's rule, if you wouldn't do it infront of your partner it probably counts as cheating. On a side note, i have noticed alot of swingers pop up in the past 2 years a percentage even in the 19-25 yr range. I don't really understand it unless your using a nasty rich person and agree to swap with couples so you could get the money and a decent sex life...but thats just a thought...an evil, evil thought

Hardly. I am not going to talk about sexual partners but take the average of someone my age and multiply it by itself and add some for good measure and you're probably not even close I just choose to fuck people when I am SINGLE and stay FAITHFUL in my RELATIONSHIP.

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Originally posted by yankeeBaby Does your man read these boards?? lol (kidding my love!) wow you guys would have a SHIT FIT if you were in my office right now. The scumbag shit is coming out in FULL FORCE. lol Also, I see a big difference between the scumbags who cheat left and right, as compared to the people who slip up and honestly had a momentary lapse in judgement. (maybe because I am the "sex therapist") I find it hard to believe that people can stay faithful for their ENTIRE lives.

My man will read this thread later because I will show it to him

I agree, staying faithful 'forever' is probably really tough and I haven't been with Adam 'forever' so I don't know... We talked about it though and the decision we came to was that we would examine what was wrong with us before acting on any attraction to another person. If that attraction overrides the memories, love, life, happiness, compatibility and care we have for each other and both families involved, it is time to end the relationship. EOM.

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Originally posted by ChemEnhanced my rule of thumb is if my GF thinks it would be cheating then its cheating....it doesn't matter what I think is cheating....cause she is the one who is going to be pissed off at me....and I've learned....you can't change someone's mind about whether or not what you did was cheating.

Exactamundo and vice versa too! I have lots of male friends that I talk to in depth and when Adam and I first started dating, I used to copy msn conversations and send him emails that were sent to me so he wasn't in the dark about the relationships I have. As a result, he trusts me implicitly. Treat how you want to be treated. EASY PEASY!

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Originally posted by SniFFleS I can only have sex with a girl for a month or two before losing interest. I have no idea how I will ever get married and I feel bad for my girl because I love her but don't really even wanna have sex with her anymore. I would just rather jerk off most of the time. Any advice?

Stay single and fuck lots. When you find someone you are SUPPOSED to be with, it will feel natural and the boredom won't come for a long time. You will also have a better orgasm just through touching and loving - the acrobatics and filth becomes less necessary

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Originally posted by Jem_hadar Okies. We are on same page, pie! Agreed.

Jem, I think you nailed it. Ppl just want easy sex and will go as far as faming a relationship to get...I find this happens with mostly guys as they'll milk it for the sex until the girl gets bored and leaves. Which makes sense, as 90% of girls leave guys anyways.

So us guys are just greedy. We want it all dammit. We want steady sex plus more exciting seperate booty calls cuz we're untamed beasts. ROAR!

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Originally posted by yankeeBaby hmmm can I still do that? What should the options be?

this couldn't be done as a poll in its current form - if you know of at least 1 person who is faithful then the answer is no...

maybe some combination of "is it more common/acceptable in current society to cheat than it was 5/10/20 years ago"

peoples' changing attitudes to love vs sex is a major factor imo

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Originally posted by Nobbie Q So us guys are just greedy. We want it all dammit. We want steady sex plus more exciting seperate booty calls cuz we're untamed beasts. ROAR!

Like I said, difference between humans and animals

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Originally posted by chinamon not true. i say "ugh" but i am a tranny.

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Originally posted by kotsy lol colour me retarded

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Originally posted by Yohan Like I said, difference between humans and animals

SMS has replaced mating calls

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Originally posted by Yohan Like I said, difference between humans and animals

I'm not an animal yohan!!!





<3 rachel and her responses. <3 <3

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Originally posted by yankeeBaby I'm not an animal yohan!!!

Oh? You're a man, Kelly?

(read carefully the post I quoted and this reply)

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Originally posted by chinamon not true. i say "ugh" but i am a tranny.

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Originally posted by kotsy lol colour me retarded

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Originally posted by Yohan Oh? You're a man, Kelly? (read carefully the post I quoted and this reply)

I see I see

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