Become a part of the TranceAddict community!Frequently Asked Questions - Please read this if you haven'tSearch the forums
TranceAddict Forums > Main Forums > Chill Out Room > How do you tell someone they STINK?
Pages (6): « 1 2 3 4 [5] 6 »   Last Thread   Next Thread
Share
Author
Thread    Post A Reply
Ania_xox
let me drive



Registered: Apr 2007
Location: on the midnight street

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
A situation such as this needs to be handled through HR or a manager.



I totally disagree.
Why should a manager have to get involved over other members of thr working team?
It's a problem to the interior of the workplace - not the exterior (unless you guys meet face to face with clients).
I always do everything I can do on my own before I call a manager. I can't ever imagine myself calling HR or one of my bosses to come tell someone they stink.


___________________
quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
oh well, different strokes different vaginas

Some dance to remember ~ Some dance to forget

Old Post May-15-2008 02:20  Poland
Click Here to See the Profile for Ania_xox Click here to Send Ania_xox a Private Message Add Ania_xox to your buddy list Report this Post Reply w/Quote Edit/Delete Message
Lilith
Meowsies!



Registered: Nov 2000
Location: Maximum Security twilight home for cats

quote:
Originally posted by LazFX
find the loud mouth black chick and plant the seed in her ear mate, it works all the time



...or just hose them down with whatever perfume you have at hand.
Technically it can be considered assault, so you may as well bean them with the bottle if they look to pursue that route and make it really worth your while.

Old Post May-15-2008 02:27 
Click Here to See the Profile for Lilith Click here to Send Lilith a Private Message Add Lilith to your buddy list Report this Post Reply w/Quote Edit/Delete Message
Ygrene
Dr. Stinkburger Deluxe



Registered: Nov 2003
Location: Totergefuttert

quote:
Originally posted by Ania_xox
I totally disagree.
Why should a manager have to get involved over other members of thr working team?
It's a problem to the interior of the workplace - not the exterior (unless you guys meet face to face with clients).
I always do everything I can do on my own before I call a manager. I can't ever imagine myself calling HR or one of my bosses to come tell someone they stink.


It's as much for protection as anything else. Say you approach a co-worker and tell them they stink. Now your co-worker takes offense to that and feels that you are discriminating against them because they carry different bathing practices than you do. And now they report you to HR for discrimination. FUCKING THING SUCKS!


___________________

Old Post May-15-2008 02:40  United States
Click Here to See the Profile for Ygrene Click here to Send Ygrene a Private Message Add Ygrene to your buddy list Report this Post Reply w/Quote Edit/Delete Message
Silky Johnson
International Playa Hater



Registered: Nov 2003
Location:

quote:
Originally posted by Ania_xox
I totally disagree.
Why should a manager have to get involved over other members of thr working team?
It's a problem to the interior of the workplace - not the exterior (unless you guys meet face to face with clients).
I always do everything I can do on my own before I call a manager. I can't ever imagine myself calling HR or one of my bosses to come tell someone they stink.




Looking at it from a conflict management perspective, I think it IS the manager/HR's responsibility to deal with such things.

Old Post May-15-2008 02:46 
Click Here to See the Profile for Silky Johnson Click here to Send Silky Johnson a Private Message Add Silky Johnson to your buddy list Report this Post Reply w/Quote Edit/Delete Message
varun
Sunbaked



Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Bangkok

Ohhhh my goood, youuu stiink! (Chinese accent)


___________________

Spacy dreamer

Old Post May-15-2008 02:50  India
Click Here to See the Profile for varun Click here to Send varun a Private Message Add varun to your buddy list Report this Post Reply w/Quote Edit/Delete Message
elFreak
Blood Diamonds and Salsa



Registered: Feb 2008
Location: With Juan Pachanga Eating Tacos. Ah Ha Si Mi Gusta.

lol one of the kids in my class shit his pants today then looked at me like i was gonna clean him. Smelly mother******s haha.


___________________
Le Freak - Set Archive

Le Freak - A.D.D & Chimichurri [Techno/Tech House/Music to put on burritos.]*click bitches*

Old Post May-15-2008 02:52 
Click Here to See the Profile for elFreak Click here to Send elFreak a Private Message Add elFreak to your buddy list Report this Post Reply w/Quote Edit/Delete Message
squirrelly
The Phun Nun



Registered: Oct 2003
Location: In the Shower

Strike a match next to him, see if he catches on fire.

Old Post May-15-2008 03:03  Poland
Click Here to See the Profile for squirrelly Click here to Send squirrelly a Private Message Add squirrelly to your buddy list Report this Post Reply w/Quote Edit/Delete Message
Lilith
Meowsies!



Registered: Nov 2000
Location: Maximum Security twilight home for cats

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Looking at it from a conflict management perspective, I think it IS the manager/HR's responsibility to deal with such things.

It is.
Mostly because it's easier to just be up front about it, get it fixed quickly, rather than to try and separate Mr Stinky Pants from the choke hold of Mr Passive Cubicle Prole who has eventually pent up his anger for about... a month or two later and explodes in either a torrent of rage or if we're really lucky, gunfire.

Old Post May-15-2008 03:05 
Click Here to See the Profile for Lilith Click here to Send Lilith a Private Message Add Lilith to your buddy list Report this Post Reply w/Quote Edit/Delete Message
Ygrene
Dr. Stinkburger Deluxe



Registered: Nov 2003
Location: Totergefuttert

This just in:

Do not use the word 'poop' when referencing his stink.


___________________

Old Post May-15-2008 03:16  United States
Click Here to See the Profile for Ygrene Click here to Send Ygrene a Private Message Add Ygrene to your buddy list Report this Post Reply w/Quote Edit/Delete Message
Silky Johnson
International Playa Hater



Registered: Nov 2003
Location:

Unless you're talking about his breath.

Old Post May-15-2008 03:19 
Click Here to See the Profile for Silky Johnson Click here to Send Silky Johnson a Private Message Add Silky Johnson to your buddy list Report this Post Reply w/Quote Edit/Delete Message
bas
Stronger Lover



Registered: Jul 2004
Location: Here I Am Baby


___________________

Old Post May-15-2008 03:29  Egypt
Click Here to See the Profile for bas Click here to Send bas a Private Message Visit bas's homepage! Add bas to your buddy list Report this Post Reply w/Quote Edit/Delete Message
Ania_xox
let me drive



Registered: Apr 2007
Location: on the midnight street

I still can't wrap my head around calling Human Resources to tell someone they stink. Honestly. I need a more in-depth explanation or some sort of hypothetical situation here. Again, the problem in question has nothing to do with the business itself - and it's not like he is aggressively causing the problem. IMO, the work hierarchy only stands in professional aspects... hygiene is not one of them (unless you're talking about a field such as nursing, as The Pie mentioned earlier). Your boss has no more power when he/she tells this guy that he stinks than if YOU yourself told him so. I think calling a boss to talk about it to him is a cop-out. It bugs YOU, so YOU do something about it.


___________________
quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
oh well, different strokes different vaginas

Some dance to remember ~ Some dance to forget

Old Post May-15-2008 04:12  Poland
Click Here to See the Profile for Ania_xox Click here to Send Ania_xox a Private Message Add Ania_xox to your buddy list Report this Post Reply w/Quote Edit/Delete Message

TranceAddict Forums > Main Forums > Chill Out Room > How do you tell someone they STINK?
Post New Thread    Post A Reply

Pages (6): « 1 2 3 4 [5] 6 »  
Last Thread   Next Thread
Click here to listen to the sample!Pause playback4. another good tune [2004] [1]

Click here to listen to the sample!Pause playbackSuperchumbo - "Dirty Filthy" (Chus & Ceballos Mix) [2006]

Show Printable Version | Subscribe to this Thread
Forum Jump:

All times are GMT. The time now is 10:54.

Forum Rules:
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not edit your posts
HTML code is ON
vB code is ON
[IMG] code is ON
 
Search this Thread:

 
Contact Us - return to tranceaddict

Powered by: Trance Music & vBulletin Forums
Copyright ©2000-2026, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Privacy Statement / DMCA
Support TA!