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Ania_xox
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Registered: Apr 2007
Location: on the midnight street

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee


yea OK

ania i love u but i have to strongly disagree with you here and this thread topic in general.



go on...

lol seriously

because even the most detached player is just a sucker when in front of the girl he really wants. I think girls can get pathetic when a guy doesn't want them back, but ultimately they will move on and find another guy to fulfill their needs. I feel that guys are always at the mercy of the girl they salivate over or the girl who "gets" them.
Most single guys are helpless in terms of what they want and need. I know girls like this too, but the situation holds true more often in reverse.

If a guy strings a girl along, he is just a player and an asshole, and oftentimes it is expected of him. What I mean is, girls are often more cautious in scrutinizing guys this way. If a girl is manipulating a guy to hang around while she figures herself out but doesn't really want him in the long run, she's a cold-hearted manipulative bitch - and it wasn't expected of her.

I don't know if I'm explaining this very well but I think the distinction is rooted in traditional male and female societal roles.


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This thread is downright scientific.


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Joss Weatherby
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Registered: May 2008
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i was lead down this path for 9 years... its horrible.

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Scottaculous
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Registered: Mar 2001
Location: On a plane

my cousin is getting strung along by this chick. they play text message games and he misses out on family functions for her. i keep telling him she's just playing him because it feels nice to get attention but he doesn't listen. it's ok though, he's still young.

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Echo of Silence
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Registered: Sep 2003
Location: corner of the garden

quote:
Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
i was lead down this path for 9 years... its horrible.



I disagree, Nou. Allie wasn't a manipulative bitch using you 'til she found something better. You two were friends. You hung out and did stuff together. And every now and then, she had a boyfriend and that would interfere with the friendship.


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Slylee
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Registered: May 2001
Location: Hollywood, FL

quote:
Originally posted by Ania_xox
go on...

lol seriously

because even the most detached player is just a sucker when in front of the girl he really wants. I think girls can get pathetic when a guy doesn't want them back, but ultimately they will move on and find another guy to fulfill their needs. I feel that guys are always at the mercy of the girl they salivate over or the girl who "gets" them.
Most single guys are helpless in terms of what they want and need. I know girls like this too, but the situation holds true more often in reverse.

If a guy strings a girl along, he is just a player and an asshole, and oftentimes it is expected of him. What I mean is, girls are often more cautious in scrutinizing guys this way. If a girl is manipulating a guy to hang around while she figures herself out but doesn't really want him in the long run, she's a cold-hearted manipulative bitch - and it wasn't expected of her.

I don't know if I'm explaining this very well but I think the distinction is rooted in traditional male and female societal roles.


hey it's a big world and you're gonna see a pattern in your circle of friends/surrounding area and i'm gonna see a pattern in mine and they can either be the same or different and it's not going to set the standard for either sex. the opposite is true for me. i often see girls who are being naive and taken advantage of by guys who are stringing them along. your statment is a blanket statement basically that's all i was saying.


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quote:
Originally posted by Echo of Silence
I disagree, Nou. Allie wasn't a manipulative bitch using you 'til she found something better. You two were friends. You hung out and did stuff together. And every now and then, she had a boyfriend and that would interfere with the friendship.


Yes. Friendship doesn't count here. This is about whores you're banging.

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Joss Weatherby
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quote:
Originally posted by Echo of Silence
I disagree, Nou. Allie wasn't a manipulative bitch using you 'til she found something better. You two were friends. You hung out and did stuff together. And every now and then, she had a boyfriend and that would interfere with the friendship.



that is true, but she used me as her pillow.... when she was lonely, and it was a real tease.

She'd need me when she was alone... and it wasnt even when she was alone, later in our friendship she only hung out with me when she had a guy but couldnt be around him for whatever reason (gone on a trip, moved to college, etc).

She just used me for her personal satisfaction and I didnt get a thing out of it. Now she pretends like I don't even fucking exist so... fuck her.

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Joss Weatherby
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quote:
Originally posted by Renzo
Yes. Friendship doesn't count here. This is about whores you're banging.


LOL I wanted to bang her!

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Echo of Silence
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k, so she prolly qualifies for Ania's definition of a manipulative female...

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Cloudburst
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quote:
Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
that is true, but she used me as her pillow.... when she was lonely, and it was a real tease.

She'd need me when she was alone... and it wasnt even when she was alone, later in our friendship she only hung out with me when she had a guy but couldnt be around him for whatever reason (gone on a trip, moved to college, etc).

She just used me for her personal satisfaction and I didnt get a thing out of it. Now she pretends like I don't even fucking exist so... fuck her.


Made me think of this

quote:
DragonflyBlade21: A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.


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Unique2701
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Registered: Apr 2005
Location: Amsterdam

quote:
Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
that is true, but she used me as her pillow.... when she was lonely, and it was a real tease.

She'd need me when she was alone... and it wasnt even when she was alone, later in our friendship she only hung out with me when she had a guy but couldnt be around him for whatever reason (gone on a trip, moved to college, etc).

She just used me for her personal satisfaction and I didnt get a thing out of it. Now she pretends like I don't even fucking exist so... fuck her.


Sorry to say it, but if you only knew that after 9 years, then it kind of is your own fault too.


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