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| quote: | Originally posted by SYSTEM-J
The problem is gross overshare with complete strangers. Don't release embarrassing, compromising or incriminating information into the waterways and then cry foul when it comes back and bites you publicly in the ass. It's well known that the COR is populated by some extremely odd and disturbing characters, and who knows what evil lurks from beyond the portal of Google? |
Although this may be something of a problem in a few cases, putting the blame on the victim really doesn't help, specially if the victim did not share as much as you'd think.
For the sake of the argument, suppose I didn't send you a friend request on Facebook that day. Instead, I just confirmed what your name is, saw the city you're based on and, with some radagastian stamina, I found out where you work (or whether you're on the dole), and so on. I'd have done this with just your name, and then you'd have little control over the rest. Would you really put the blame on yourself for publishing music reviews using your real name?
You'd be the victim, not the one at fault.
| quote: | Originally posted by SYSTEM-J
Anyway, the only thing "killing" this place is the decline of trance music. This site was at its busiest when trance was extremely popular, and as that's declined we've had less new members sign up and older members predictably drop off as they stop clubbing, stop keeping up with the music or move on with their tastes. There is absolutely nothing that can be done to halt the slow demise of this community, and you may as well accept that and go down with the gloriously dysfunctional ship. |
That's definitely a factor, but hardly the only one. When I first came here, some ten years ago, the only reason I stayed was because jploveparade and igottaknow welcomed me with open arms, and posted some fun stuff. This is hardly the case nowadays, as bickering seems to be the favourite pastime of some members.
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