its not looks mainly.

Guys say dumb things that will turn off a girl. You gotta get into her pensonality and try match it. Do it in a way that makes here get closer to you instead of further. Communication is great when you enjoy each others company equally.

Imagine your the girl and you heard something dumb. How do you repsond to that nicely or in a way that would make the guy feel he is in good standing in her book.

If you the guy are not on her top list of priorities ATM then most likely have no chance to get with her.

girls who look good every day take care of themselves everyday. They feel they need a guy who would take care of themselves just as much from what I hear from girls alot.

don't be bossed around by a girl. If so then you'll be a bitch for life and your friends will make fun of you.

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Originally posted by kirbtastic *note to self: whipping cock out makes me better looking. thanks for the advice psy-trancer..ill be sure to try ur method out this weekend.

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Originally posted by kirbtastic i think all men should stop answering this thread...no man knows what women want..the fact is women dont even know what they want..they are all lunatics. the sooner u stop trying to act and look, the way u think a woman wants you to act and look and start being yourself..the sooner that special girl will find you. and she will love you for being you..who the hell wants to fall in love with a phony.

EXACTLY what I was thinking. If women don't even know what they want themselves, how should we know. Also, women not knowing what they want implies the fact that there is nothing that they do want because it's obviously not been determined, so why waste time and make assumptions on what they would want if it hypothetically existed?!?

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Originally posted by infinity HiGH so you're sayin that just coming up to her and asking her name, or what program she's taking and then following up on all that will work?

Yep, that will work, as long as you pull it off the right way... as I said, try to find out as much about her as possible, BE interested in her, like why is she taking whatever program she's taking, what does she find interesting in it, what does she like about the program/school, and take it from there (then of course, find out what she likes/doesn't like in life, what she wants from life, etc)... remember, get her to express her feelings and get her to dig deep inside for answers, she might feel a bit closer to you after that. Just don't think about the obvious (how to hook up with her and get her into bed right away), try to get to know her first, cuz that works in most cases. If she's one of the typical girls, she will sense that you are just trying to pick her up and will reject you right away... instead, try to get closer to her, and then ask her out.

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Originally posted by kirbtastic the sooner u stop trying to act and look, the way u think a woman wants you to act and look and start being yourself..the sooner that special girl will find you. and she will love you for being you..who the hell wants to fall in love with a phony.

True. Just don't be like every other guy. It gets boring...
As far as looks go, you'll never know what we look for because we've all obviously got a different idea of what's hot/cute. (And, yes, there is a difference between the two.)

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Originally posted by fantom Yep, that will work, as long as you pull it off the right way... as I said, try to find out as much about her as possible, BE interested in her, like why is she taking whatever program she's taking, what does she find interesting in it, what does she like about the program/school, and take it from there (then of course, find out what she likes/doesn't like in life, what she wants from life, etc)... remember, get her to express her feelings and get her to dig deep inside for answers, she might feel a bit closer to you after that. Just don't think about the obvious (how to hook up with her and get her into bed right away), try to get to know her first, cuz that works in most cases. If she's one of the typical girls, she will sense that you are just trying to pick her up and will reject you right away... instead, try to get closer to her, and then ask her out.

Alright, thanks for the advice man Next time I see her around I'll try talkin to her and see what happens.

As for now; I gotta write my research paper proposal for parapsychology...ugh.

*shoots himself*

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Originally posted by Sugarbean i dont know how it is for most girls but to me the looks arent anything....what i like the best in a guy is how he holds himself...his attitude and most of all is self confidence.thats what i look for first....sure the looks are what first attract someones attention but a self confident person no matter what they look like attracts attention just as much...

lena? Nice to see you around & all but... ur sig gives me the willies.

If a guy is similer to goodnet, he has nothing to worry about.

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Originally posted by goodnet lena? Nice to see you around & all but... ur sig gives me the willies.

lol, same here

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