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Originally posted by shawn2331 the last girl i was with tried to act like a tease but after she got a few beers or drinks in her she turned into a freak and was all about da dick. So not all girls are like that, but it does seem like most of the ones that are into lots of sex end up being the ones you don't wanna get serious with.

ah yeah exactly, i shoulda restated.
most of the girls i find that are really into sex are ones who i dont wanna have sex with (unattractive girls).
most of the girls i find attractive and would want to hook up with are the ones that seem to be teases and shit

I find the situation volaitile and subjective. Just like everything else in human nature. Perhaps your 'environment' has placed you in a position where men are more predisposed to 'liking' sex than women, or perhaps you should umm.. get out more??? In any event I don't think its a question that can be answered because the question itself is questionable. My best guess is its some of the remnants of the culture that predated the 20th century biting your ass if its anything at all.

Of course my view of the world is particularly jaded (although not in this case, maybe i just need to give it some time) and perhaps a bit idealistic so... there you have it..

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Originally posted by butterfly i only f*** with people i don't really have feelings for.

That's the problem these days; there's so many hurt people, who are afraid to get attached to ANYONE these days. Scarred wounded souls, that cannot truely latch on to another other person, whether it's the same, or opposite sex, depending on preference.


I mean, to get to a different topic, I think many of us in this society, are highly insecure, and lack the love, that we humans desire.


The problem is, most of think, 'love' is corney, and in a way, I think it is too. When most of us are in love, we act like fools, and do things we would normally NEVER, EVER do if we didn't have that euphoric uplifting emotion. That emotion can influence change in one's life, and renewed perspective in life. The problem is...


We usually get our hearts broken.


It's sad; the only way to avoid this is to not love at all; but if we were to never love, we would live empty lives. This to me, 'IS' the BIGGEST INJUSTICE in the world.


Just had to post this Eugene, sorry for goin off topic. -Mental

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Originally posted by tranzMental It's sad; the only way to avoid this is to not love at all; but if we were to never love, we would live empty lives. This to me, 'IS' the BIGGEST INJUSTICE in the world.

Well said man.....

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For all of you who feel that girls don't want sex as much as guys, a quick story for you:

I saw this unbelievably gorgeous girl from time to time. I finally started talking to her, and found out how frickin' attractive I was to her, not just for her body (rock hard), but her attitude and outlook was just my style. A few months down the road, and after a few meetings here and there around the town, I asked her to go to an afterhours party with me. She said, "sure", so we left the bar, grabbed a few Yoohoos and candy bars at the Quick Shop, and left for the party. Well, the party sucked, so we went back to her place. After a few kisses, I thought I should be the gentlemen by saying "goodnight" and then graciously leaving with a phone number. Well, she put an end to that thought. "You're not leaving me yet," she said, then proceeded to grab me by my wanker and pulled me upstairs onto her bed! Best sex ever. Amazing girl.

That was almost exactly 6 years ago. We've been married for almost 3 years. Still the best sex ever, and she's just as frisky as me (if not more).

Moral of the story: Marry the frisky ones - they are the most fun. Keeps ya on your toes!

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Originally posted by MisterOpus1 "You're not leaving me yet," she said, then proceeded to grab me by my wanker and pulled me upstairs onto her bed!

that sounds vicious

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Originally posted by vito that sounds vicious

Well, maybe it did sound more vicious than it really was, LOL!

Though it did catch me off guard to say the least. Still has a tendency to do that - that's why I like her I guess!

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this is not the biggest injustice in the world...this is... that girls who have the same amount of sex as a man no matter what are labled as whores....shes a slut for having sex with that dude where as hes a pimp...thats the biggest injustice where sex and society is concerned.

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Originally posted by tranzMental That's the problem these days; there's so many hurt people, who are afraid to get attached to ANYONE these days. Scarred wounded souls, that cannot truely latch on to another other person, whether it's the same, or opposite sex, depending on preference. I mean, to get to a different topic, I think many of us in this society, are highly insecure, and lack the love, that we humans desire. The problem is, most of think, 'love' is corney, and in a way, I think it is too. When most of us are in love, we act like fools, and do things we would normally NEVER, EVER do if we didn't have that euphoric uplifting emotion. That emotion can influence change in one's life, and renewed perspective in life. The problem is... We usually get our hearts broken. It's sad; the only way to avoid this is to not love at all; but if we were to never love, we would live empty lives. This to me, 'IS' the BIGGEST INJUSTICE in the world. Just had to post this Eugene, sorry for goin off topic. -Mental

so so so so true. i recently had my heart broken by the first guy i ever really let go with and was able to love. and i got fucked. i don't regret that i loved him (and still do) but the pain is horrible and i know that because of the hurt it will be harder to be able to love again.

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Originally posted by tranzMental That's the problem these days; there's so many hurt people, who are afraid to get attached to ANYONE these days. Scarred wounded souls, that cannot truely latch on to another other person, whether it's the same, or opposite sex, depending on preference. I mean, to get to a different topic, I think many of us in this society, are highly insecure, and lack the love, that we humans desire. The problem is, most of think, 'love' is corney, and in a way, I think it is too. When most of us are in love, we act like fools, and do things we would normally NEVER, EVER do if we didn't have that euphoric uplifting emotion. That emotion can influence change in one's life, and renewed perspective in life. The problem is... We usually get our hearts broken. It's sad; the only way to avoid this is to not love at all; but if we were to never love, we would live empty lives. This to me, 'IS' the BIGGEST INJUSTICE in the world. Just had to post this Eugene, sorry for goin off topic. -Mental

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The problem with the world....love is repressed! Everyone's erotic desires are repressed because it's "wrong" and because of all this playing-around bullshit, whether you're a girl or guy doesn't matter, we all do the same things whether you realize it or not.

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Originally posted by MisterOpus1 For all of you who feel that girls don't want sex as much as guys, a quick story for you: I saw this unbelievably gorgeous girl from time to time. I finally started talking to her, and found out how frickin' attractive I was to her, not just for her body (rock hard), but her attitude and outlook was just my style. A few months down the road, and after a few meetings here and there around the town, I asked her to go to an afterhours party with me. She said, "sure", so we left the bar, grabbed a few Yoohoos and candy bars at the Quick Shop, and left for the party. Well, the party sucked, so we went back to her place. After a few kisses, I thought I should be the gentlemen by saying "goodnight" and then graciously leaving with a phone number. Well, she put an end to that thought. "You're not leaving me yet," she said, then proceeded to grab me by my wanker and pulled me upstairs onto her bed! Best sex ever. Amazing girl. That was almost exactly 6 years ago. We've been married for almost 3 years. Still the best sex ever, and she's just as frisky as me (if not more). Moral of the story: Marry the frisky ones - they are the most fun. Keeps ya on your toes!

haha! you're lucky.

one in a million.

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Sugarbean this is not the biggest injustice in the world...this is... that girls who have the same amount of sex as a man no matter what are labled as whores....shes a slut for having sex with that dude where as hes a pimp...thats the biggest injustice where sex and society is concerned.

it is true that women are sexually repressed in a lot of ways, and it's very wrong, but i think that's secondary to the general repression of sex in our society.

love and sex are THE basic human functions. (yeah yeah we all have to eat but that's granted) the fact that they have been so destroyed and perverted beyond belief, just shows how MESSED up our world is, actually how our society is.

anyone who sits down and reflects on the matter will easily reach the same conclusion.

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butterfly so so so so true. i recently had my heart broken by the first guy i ever really let go with and was able to love. and i got fucked. i don't regret that i loved him (and still do) but the pain is horrible and i know that because of the hurt it will be harder to be able to love again.

yes, i understand, as i said, we all do it whether we know it or not. guys and girls included. basically because of the sex repression issue.